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Men's fashion, how far will it go?

Climber

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Seems like the Paris show was trying to push men into women's cloths, something that I'm sure Tux would applaud.

What can’t a man wear? Designers break convention at Paris Men’s Fashion Week
If last year’s discourse over a pink sweater was anything to go by, it’s that attitudes to masculinity are still more fragile than one might think. In late 2025, a candyfloss-colored fair isle knit from J.Crew went viral when it was dragged into the center of a debate around whether “real men” could wear such a color. The firestorm was sparked by a post on X from conservative commentator Juanita Broaddrick, who said: “Are you kidding me?? Men, would you wear this $168 sweater?” The consensus was largely no – not because of the price tag but because it was viewed as demasculinizing. “More feminization of men. Stop it, J.Crew,” wrote one user. Another described it as worthy of a “Golden Girl.”
If you look through the fashions, many were hideous to me. I'm not homophobic, but there are things that make utterly no sense for a man to wear.
 
I saw a dude in the sickest pink hello kitty racing jacket yesterday. I told him it was epic.

Now to go read your article. :laughing

So, fashion is art. I see artistic license here. I guess I’m less perturbed seeing men in pink or wearing a skirt bc I’ve seen this for years already. It’s not a big deal. Skirts are hella comfy and breezy…

Art is gonna art. People are gonna wear what makes them happy. If a dude loves pink, I don’t see a problem.
 
Yes, it is ridiculous.


That this is even being discussed anywhere.

Apparently some think Paris fashion week should just have men wearing clothes from the Bass pro shop summer line?
 
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Fashion is some funny shit. I have stuff from the 80's that is hip again.
 
Yes, it is ridiculous.


That this is even being discussed anywhere.

Apparently some think Paris fashion week should just have men wearing clothes from the Bass pro shop summer line.

Get a fuggin life
That's not an intelligent comparison, but you do you.

I don't find them attractive, that's my perspective. Why would a man want to wear a dress? I understand kilts, that is a cultural thing and an excuse to air out their balls.
 
That's not an intelligent comparison, but you do you.

Did you look at the article and see what they were wearing? Are you ready to starting wearing all of those?
No one will make anyone wear what they don’t wanna. We’re not quite there yet.

But we can remain open minded and appreciate the artistry of a good outfit now and forever.
 
No one will make anyone wear what they don’t wanna. We’re not quite there yet.

But we can remain open minded and appreciate the artistry of a good outfit now and forever.
I understand that, to me there have been many hideous women's outfits as designers try to invent something new. It seems like they're doing the same wtih mens outfits.

To each their own, but it doesn't appeal to me.
 
Yes, it is unbelievable what modern men's fashion has come to...
We should all long for the good old days when men looked like men

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I understand that, to me there have been many hideous women's outfits as designers try to invent something new. It seems like they're doing the same wtih mens outfits.

To each their own, but it doesn't appeal to me.
Then you can stick with jeans and shirts or whatever makes you happy. But someone else might be stoked that more expressive clothes are available. :)
 
Did I say they can't?
I expressed my opinion, speaking for my own perception, I didn't say that others shouldn't.
 
I like that fashion seems to be moving past limitations and prejudice. The era of “only gay men wear pink” and “real men only wear…” is fucking stupid and needs to fully die. It’s harmful to some ppl and limiting for everyone else. F that.
 
We had a pink phase for men in the 90's. I don't recall how long it lasted for.
 
Pink polos and tees have been prep school frat boy and golf wear forever

There is a guy here in Truckee who wears kilts year-round.

Haute couture is not anything to clutch pearls over, it is designers trying to make a statement.
 
@Climber Your OP reads toxic. You equate the new menswear with “women’s clothes”, “hideous”, and “utterly no sense for a man”. That’s insults for anything that doesn’t fit your version of masculinity. You even brought up homophobia even though sexual preference doesn’t actually fit into a fashion convo, making your words even more toxic.

It sounds like you have too much toxic masculinity and are a little bit homophobic. If you don’t/aren’t, maybe you shouldn’t type those words.
 
Gemini says golf pros and bros started wearing pink in the mid-2000s. When I was in highschool before that, pink was firmly rejected because it was “gay”. I do rem thinking the acceptance of pink by the bros was a huge cultural shift, as that group was a major part of the problem a few years before. Pink polos showing up at Express on the Men’s side 🤯😂. But that’s just IME and obviously very broad strokes.
 
@Climber Your OP reads toxic. You equate the new menswear with “women’s clothes”, “hideous”, and “utterly no sense for a man”. That’s insults for anything that doesn’t fit your version of masculinity. You even brought up homophobia even though sexual preference doesn’t actually fit into a fashion convo, making your words even more toxic.

It sounds like you have too much toxic masculinity and are a little bit homophobic. If you don’t/aren’t, maybe you shouldn’t type those words.
If you knew my life, you wouldn't be making that statement. I posted as my opinion and perception. Fashion has put out as many hideous outfits for women as they've put out good, IMHO. Would you tell me that youi've never seen an outfit at a fashion show that you didn't find hideous?
 
@Climber Your OP reads toxic. You equate the new menswear with “women’s clothes”, “hideous”, and “utterly no sense for a man”. That’s insults for anything that doesn’t fit your version of masculinity. You even brought up homophobia even though sexual preference doesn’t actually fit into a fashion convo, making your words even more toxic.

It sounds like you have too much toxic masculinity and are a little bit homophobic. If you don’t/aren’t, maybe you shouldn’t type these words.
I agree. Men in your 40's or 50's and older, we have some outdated, legacy, programming to deal with. IMHO, the most "manly" thing a male can do is live their authentic life with kindness and care for others. How that looks is up to you. You flex you man card when your voice is the one that you listen to first. Your beer, your car, your bike, your clothes, your hairstyle, none of that shit will ever make you man if you can't be secure in your own skin first. High fashion is always going to be fringe and impractical. It's supposed to be. It isn't supposed to translate into every day wear. That said, if you don't like pink, don't wear it but, your a fool if you think how a person is dressed is reflection of their "manliness" or "womanliness." :2cents
 
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