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If you guys are blaming me, you are way off the mark.

If you aren’t blaming me, then carry on.
 
900ss said:
TWT, would you be willing to start an invitation only thread? This is a very important subject to many. Thank you for trying!
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I can’t do that. There are tools that could solve the issue at hand but I don’t have access to them.
ST Guy said:
If you guys are blaming me, you are way off the mark.

If you aren’t blaming me, then carry on.
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yes. I am blaming you. You said you would leave and then doubled down. I’m going to ask the thread be locked because I am sick of your shit.
 
I said:

“ If you want a thread that offers just grousing about one’s problems and offers no suggestions for improving one’s life, then I’m out of here.”

I put a caveat about my leaving. It would seem that you do want a thread for grousing with no suggestions for creating a meaningful life.

And i have seen no posts re how I minimized anyone or anything. Why don’t you point them out to me so I can learn from them?
 
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ST Guy said:
I said:

“ If you want a thread that offers just grousing about one’s problems and offers no suggestions for improving one’s life, then I’m out of here.”
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YES, this is what we want. We want a thread where people can discuss their issues and others can empathize and support. That is a vast difference btween telling them what they should do. Look at your posts in comparison with others. Notice the use of I vs. you in your responses. It's one thing to talk about your issues and what helps you. It's another to tell them what they should do.
 
I wasn’t telling anyone what they should do. I was making suggestions.

And not having mental health problems doesn’t mean one’s suggestions don’t have value. The things I do are exactly why I don’t have mental health issues.

And I never said my suggestions were easy. On the contrary, they are difficult to do. It’s difficult to make changes to one’s thinking.

And I would ask all who jumped on me, what in your thought patterns prompted these unwarranted reactions to what I’ve said in this thread?
 
To clarify, I didn't "jump on you". Stop being dramatic.
What you did was exactly what I posted and you just don't fucking get it so by all means carry on.
hammer that reputation home. :thumbup
 
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