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Online Dating, whats your experience?

Just a few thoughts...

1. If you find someone much younger than you reacting poorly to a stressful situation, why would that be a surprise?

2. It would be a terrible world if we were all judged by any one single moment in time.

3. Relationships are not created they are built.

4. There are far too many Barfettes to simply say none are datable. Looking at 2 and 3 above I would surmise you are actually doing them a favor with this opinion.
 
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Not sure about number 4, as in from the posts I see I don't think there are that many Barfettes. So maybe the few that are here just don't align with Moike standards or something.

For others, specially 3, I agree.
 
29 years married, thank God. Dated the well-established way ..... :thumbup. If it ever came down to it dating in this timeframe would be interesting, to say the least.
 
saying all the guy barfers are worthless or all the barfettes are worthless is more a reflection of the person with that particular opinion, than an accurate reflection of the hundreds (or is it thousands) of barfers and barfettes.
 
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i'm worth it...
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I had almost forgotten about a chick I met online 6-7 yrs ago. We exchanged a few emails then phone calls and finally agree to meet. Some of those phone calls were painful.
We went out to dinner and then her place. Where there wasn't a thing out of place.
We went out for a couple of weeks and she kept wanting to go back to my place but I wasn't ready for her to know where I lived.
Turns out her place was up for sale and the reason it was so clean and tidy, ready for viewing.
I wasn't looking for a roommate so I let that one die.
I've actually had better luck at Starbucks. Everyone sees what their getting, on the surface at least.
 
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I've actually had better luck at Starbucks. Everyone sees what their getting, on the surface at least.
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I'll second that. Although I haven't been back to Starbucks since those chinese filipino girls wanted to drag me home. :laughing
 
Starbucks really? Do you guys just walk up and start a converstaion with random women that you find attractive?
 
Another winner of the coveted Bloodninja award from awfulfirstdates.com:


I met a guy who I had some mutual friends with, and he invited me over to his house, saying they were going to join us. At his place, he started going on about these crazy “adventures” that he’d been on that sounded like something out of an action movie. When I asked him what on earth he was talking about, he told me he was referring to things that his “character” had done in that “Vampire the Masquerade” role playing card game. Keep in mind the guy was 34 years old! He then went to his bedroom and came out with all these cards, t-shirts and costumes that he and his friends would wear while acting out the game. Not just role playing, but getting in capes with fake swords and the whole thing. I just sat there wondering when our friends would show up. He took his “collection” back into the bedroom, and when he returned to the living room, he was naked except for the cape! He then confessed that our friends were not coming at all and he’d lied to get me there. I grabbed my purse and jacket and ran for the door. He chased after me, cape flying out behind him, yelling, “Can’t we just hook up?! You came all the way over here, why not?! Please?!!?”
 
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Another winner of the coveted Bloodninja award from awfulfirstdates.com:


I met a guy who I had some mutual friends with, and he invited me over to his house, saying they were going to join us. At his place, he started going on about these crazy “adventures” that he’d been on that sounded like something out of an action movie. When I asked him what on earth he was talking about, he told me he was referring to things that his “character” had done in that “Vampire the Masquerade” role playing card game. Keep in mind the guy was 34 years old! He then went to his bedroom and came out with all these cards, t-shirts and costumes that he and his friends would wear while acting out the game. Not just role playing, but getting in capes with fake swords and the whole thing. I just sat there wondering when our friends would show up. He took his “collection” back into the bedroom, and when he returned to the living room, he was naked except for the cape! He then confessed that our friends were not coming at all and he’d lied to get me there. I grabbed my purse and jacket and ran for the door. He chased after me, cape flying out behind him, yelling, “Can’t we just hook up?! You came all the way over here, why not?! Please?!!?”
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The Naked Man....works 2 out of 3 times...
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Online dating - great way to get dates.

Seemed to have a higher proportion of nut jobs than meeting them the 'normal' way, but maybe that's because my nut-job detection goes off faster in-person than online?

Spent 6 months serial dating (lots of sex, will give it that).

After 2 especially disastrous dating experiences (one stalker, one serious low-self-esteem game-player) I decided to give it a rest.

One last message popped into my mail as I'm literally deleting my profile. I'm hovering over the 'Are you sure you want to delete this profile forever' button, when I decide, fuggit, let's have one last read.

The message just said, 'Nice legs!'

I've been with the lady who wrote it for 12 years now, 2 kids, about to buy a house.

Seemed to work out in the end :thumbup
 
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