Surj has one and he is the EIC of City Bike, so it must be.

Yeah. End of story. I have one, and have ridden the piss out of it, and
many more bikes than most of the people posting questionable advice in this thread. Width of the boxer motor? Really?
I've always loved the RxR bikes. They have hard bags, the comfort, and people claim that they're fun in the twisties.
I'd use it for getting groceries a couple of times a week, commuting from the mission to downtown when I'm too lazy to ride my bike, going on joyrides around the bay area, going down to visit the family in Santa Cruz, getting out of town for short norcal tours, getting the hell out of CA for longer tours.
The nagging question I have is this: are they decent for riding around SF? I'm kind of concerned about the weight and the width.
Aria, there's some good information in this thread, and a bunch of malarkey too. It's true that for a pure city bike, the R is perhaps a tiny bit too big. Maybe. But for a do-it-all bike that is good in nearly every environment, it's hard to beat, especially if you rule out ADV bikes.
My use case is similar to yours. I bought my 2011 R1200R Classic when I still lived in SF, and now live in Oakland. It's been my daily commuter, it's been my long trip bike, even seen a little time on the track and some pretty serious fire road duty. Is it the best at any one of those things? Perhaps not. But it's quite good at all.
But here's the thing. I get to ride pretty much any damn thing I want and I've put a lot of miles on a lot of bikes. I never even considered replacing it for a long time. It's a
very fucking good all 'rounder. One of the ingredients in the secret sauce is the Telelever, which is
excellent for street riding, despite the "vague feel" complaints you'll hear from some.
You seem to know the reasons why, so I won't try to convince you further—but I'll offer this: I'm getting mine ready to sell tomorrow. It's
very well set up—come check it out and see what you think. No commitment required—just an offer to see what one feels like. PM me if you're interested.
You might think it's odd that I'm advocating for a bike, then closing with "I'm selling it." Over the last 4 1/2 years on my R, I've developed a precise understanding of what would make the bike perfect for me: a bit more wind protection, a bit more legroom and a bit longer suspension. I'm buying a GS, which I chose over the other ADV options for many reasons, including the aforementioned Telelever. The new R and RS models, both of which are quite bitchin', don't have that.