fattygotpunked
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Hey Kitchen Sinkers:
Kendra has a message she wanted me to relay, but I thought it best she type it and put it in her words, plus I type slow. Mods please don't ban me for this.
Hello everyone! I was reading through Kitchen sink the other day with JD and saw the thread about people's fave locked threads. It got me thinking back to how many of my threads have been locked and so I googled a couple to reminisce. Well, as I read through one after another obnoxious post (of mine) it hit me like a bat to the temple... what posters had been trying to tell me about how things come across and how offensive my posts sounded.
Wow, unreal! I was such an ass! I totally understand each and every time someone said I back off or ease up because it is coming across so rude and harsh. I was just so comitted to getting the last word and getting my sarcastic (mostly stupid) points across that I had no ability to step back and see how things might be interpreted. I was a CLASS A jerk and wish now, looking back, that I had the self-control and ability to just STFU.
In all seriousness, some people have an excuse that they may be too dumb to help it, I definitely feel I fit into that category looking back. I was a total jerk and I want to apologize to all those that I may have hurt or just offended by saying things I said. I didn't set out to make anyone feel bad, but that doesn't make it any better that I did. It would be a cop out to say that a lot of it was just collateral damage from disputes I had with particular members, there is no reason to be as much of an ass as I was.
I hope that if you were offended by any of the posts from my past you can accept my apology because I really do mean it. I so understand now, reading back, all the things people were trying to tell me when I was posting like a moron with a labotomy and a crack problem. I know this doesn't erase the posts and rotten things I said in them, but I am glad that most of them are locked because resuscitating them would be humiliating for me at this point. Not that I don't deserve it after all I've said. At the end of the day, I hope there are no lingering hard feelings and what is in the past is in the past for good.
Thanks for reading, and moderators, please don't suspend or punish Jon if this is a bad breach of TOS, just delete the thread if we are inappropriate.
Kendra has a message she wanted me to relay, but I thought it best she type it and put it in her words, plus I type slow. Mods please don't ban me for this.
Hello everyone! I was reading through Kitchen sink the other day with JD and saw the thread about people's fave locked threads. It got me thinking back to how many of my threads have been locked and so I googled a couple to reminisce. Well, as I read through one after another obnoxious post (of mine) it hit me like a bat to the temple... what posters had been trying to tell me about how things come across and how offensive my posts sounded.
Wow, unreal! I was such an ass! I totally understand each and every time someone said I back off or ease up because it is coming across so rude and harsh. I was just so comitted to getting the last word and getting my sarcastic (mostly stupid) points across that I had no ability to step back and see how things might be interpreted. I was a CLASS A jerk and wish now, looking back, that I had the self-control and ability to just STFU.
In all seriousness, some people have an excuse that they may be too dumb to help it, I definitely feel I fit into that category looking back. I was a total jerk and I want to apologize to all those that I may have hurt or just offended by saying things I said. I didn't set out to make anyone feel bad, but that doesn't make it any better that I did. It would be a cop out to say that a lot of it was just collateral damage from disputes I had with particular members, there is no reason to be as much of an ass as I was.
I hope that if you were offended by any of the posts from my past you can accept my apology because I really do mean it. I so understand now, reading back, all the things people were trying to tell me when I was posting like a moron with a labotomy and a crack problem. I know this doesn't erase the posts and rotten things I said in them, but I am glad that most of them are locked because resuscitating them would be humiliating for me at this point. Not that I don't deserve it after all I've said. At the end of the day, I hope there are no lingering hard feelings and what is in the past is in the past for good.
Thanks for reading, and moderators, please don't suspend or punish Jon if this is a bad breach of TOS, just delete the thread if we are inappropriate.
