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Crazy Karen at MotoWRX in Livermore!!

That's not your call to make.


I don't know Ed and Heather's friendship history nor does it matter.

Next time you're out in public at a restaurant or the store with your family or friends, make an off-color joke in earshot of everyone around you. If someone doesn't like it, just say "nahhh. we go way back. It's cool."

Y'all are not really seeing the problem or don't care.

You do understand there's a women's only section of BARF, right? Ever think about some of the reasons why that might be?



Then you're punishing yourself. Go read another thread. No one forced you to this one.

You're twisting words and moving goal posts all over.

Last time:

Ed made a joke.
Heather winced.
Ed apologized.
Lesson learned.

There is no other way to explain it. Continuing to call Ed out, he doesn't need it, Heather doesn't need it, it's over. He gets it.

Continuing only serves your own agenda what ever that is, it does not serve the collective at all.

If you want to educate people and try to right wrongs you're going about it the wrong way.

Bye.
 
You're twisting words and moving goal posts all over.

Last time:

Ed made a joke.
Heather winced.
Ed apologized.
Lesson learned.

There is no other way to explain it. Continuing to call Ed out, he doesn't need it, Heather doesn't need it, it's over. He gets it.

Continuing only serves your own agenda what ever that is, it does not serve the collective at all.

If you want to educate people and try to right wrongs you're going about it the wrong way.

Bye.

Ed didn't apologize. He wrote words that wasn't an apology. If you can't see that, that's your problem.

Again, you keep saying it's resolved and it's over as if you're the person who gets to decide that. If I'm still talking about it and so are you, then it's not over.

What agenda is it you think I might have? And what collective are you referring to?

What serves the 'collective' is dudes on BARF owning up to comments that turn off ANY demographic that may be present on BARF. Me speaking up is only "going about it the wrong way" because you don't like it.

Things that were said here, myself included, are really racked up to "locker room talk" guys do to justify bad taste jokes. It's not that hard to admit that. I do it all the time but I'm not in the 'locker room' when I do it.

At least I was sincere about stepping out of line.
 
It's been years since I've been a mod, and I don't know if this practice is still common among current mods, but I'd be tempted to suggest you guys take it to PM's.
 
It's been years since I've been a mod, and I don't know if this practice is still common among current mods, but I'd be tempted to suggest you guys take it to PM's.

Why?

This isn't personal. At least not to me. If it was, I would have gone the PM route already to the other dudes.
 
Is there any real reason to continue the current direction this thread has taken?
I'm inclined to say "no".
So, with that, back to the original post/vid... did she really contact LPD and did they show up?
 
Mods should lock this thread IMO.

If your dog is unleashed and someone tells you to leash it, even if they are "crazy" I would just leash it and move on with life. Then unleash when I feel comfortable doing so. A lot of conflicts can be avoided just by being nice to each other instead of taking out phones and recording like in the video.
 
Mods should lock this thread IMO.

If your dog is unleashed and someone tells you to leash it, even if they are "crazy" I would just leash it and move on with life. Then unleash when I feel comfortable doing so. A lot of conflicts can be avoided just by being nice to each other instead of taking out phones and recording like in the video.

Good advice. And this is interesting social commentary and sink material. Cray cray we all be at times, maybe.
 
Back in 2011 you made a tasteless joke regarding Ducati riders and while I don't remember exactly what you said I'm still miffed/peeved/mildly annoyed.

Better watch your step!

Hmmm….. I don’t recall disparaging Ducati riders. Perhaps it was Benelli riders? God help me if it was Honda riders. I used to be one.
 
Good advice. And this is interesting social commentary and sink material. Cray cray we all be at times, maybe.
This thread was bizarre to start with.

The thread shouldn't be locked. The conversation going on isn't a TOS violation and those that think or want the conversation to be over are saying so because they don't like what they're reading. That's not a reason to stop a thread.

Hmmm….. I don’t recall disparaging Ducati riders. Perhaps it was Benelli riders? God help me if it was Honda riders. I used to be one.

Hey now... I was told you meet the nicest people on a Honda.
 
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Dungeons and Dragons

So, lefty went from doubling down on a bad joke about women to trying to make another joke about guys that can't date women and would better understand a joke about a nerdy board game.

Really lame.

Karen's often get irrationally upset if dudes refer to tabletop Role Playing Games, as board games. Not saying that was the case here, because the Karen on the video clip almost definately had more serious underlying issues, IMO.
 
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Did Jordan take over Kuro's profile?


Also, Scaryspikes, have you ever heard a pig squeal? That's some funny shit right there. Especially if she is also crazy and in bed with you:twofinger
 

Shhhhhhhh!!! Don't tell my Wife.

Seriously, the safety of the animal is of utmost importance to me. I too love to walk my dogs off- leash, but I know that 99% of people don't understand that pit bulls are harmless, so my Wife and I walk our mutts at 6:00am, so that we can avoid the whiny people. If we do happen upon another person on the trail, we immediately stop and put our dogs on leashes.

Bottom line is this- no matter how well trained/behaved your Pit Bull is, it just takes one asshole to have your dog put to sleep. My dog's mean the world to me, so I quietly put them on a leash to keep THEM Safe.

Ant- I still love you, my Brother.

My apologies for derailing this thread with my tasteless comments.
 
Mods should lock this thread IMO.

If your dog is unleashed and someone tells you to leash it, even if they are "crazy" I would just leash it and move on with life. Then unleash when I feel comfortable doing so. A lot of conflicts can be avoided just by being nice to each other instead of taking out phones and recording like in the video.

Good advice. And this is interesting social commentary and sink material. Cray cray we all be at times, maybe.

:thumbup

that woman sure used some bad language though. (and no, I don't love her car model. :laughing <-- which is the important stuff. If you think people get upset at jokes about women, you should see how they actually get upset about their CAR -- when you tell them "it was rubbing on something soft and there is probably no damage :laughing)
 
well some guys get upset if their soft parts don't get rubbed
 
Just chiming in to say that I finally hit this thread. The first, and likely last TikTok video I will ever watch. She seemed too crude to be a real Karen, though.
 
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