Ant
Pink Freud
That's not your call to make.
I don't know Ed and Heather's friendship history nor does it matter.
Next time you're out in public at a restaurant or the store with your family or friends, make an off-color joke in earshot of everyone around you. If someone doesn't like it, just say "nahhh. we go way back. It's cool."
Y'all are not really seeing the problem or don't care.
You do understand there's a women's only section of BARF, right? Ever think about some of the reasons why that might be?
Then you're punishing yourself. Go read another thread. No one forced you to this one.
You're twisting words and moving goal posts all over.
Last time:
Ed made a joke.
Heather winced.
Ed apologized.
Lesson learned.
There is no other way to explain it. Continuing to call Ed out, he doesn't need it, Heather doesn't need it, it's over. He gets it.
Continuing only serves your own agenda what ever that is, it does not serve the collective at all.
If you want to educate people and try to right wrongs you're going about it the wrong way.
Bye.

<-- which is the important stuff. If you think people get upset at jokes about women, you should see how they actually get upset about their CAR -- when you tell them "it was rubbing on something soft and there is probably no damage