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Example why dating sucks and I spend $$ on myself

Totally true. Women are all about how tall the guy is from my experience. Several girls I dated o various Heights short and tall said it is because they want to wear their cute heels. Works for me.
 
Spend some money with the goal of more self enlightenment, and leave the groupthink out of it....


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She's lying because she wants a man taller than 5'11".

Pretty shallow...

You don't wanna waste your time with an idiot like that anyway.
 
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Her insecurity about her own height makes her desire a much taller guy so that her offspring can be "normal". It's that subliminal maternal instinct. We're not much more advanced than animals.
 
bodybuilding community??

Like Barf and advrider. There are several active bodybuilding forums online. They tend to be quite raucous and extremely ridiculous.

The discussion of Manlet vs master race is a frequent topic. Almost as frequent as the "rate my workout split".
 
One thing I don't get though dude (and if you don't want to answer this, it's all good, i'm not trying to put you on blast), maybe this is a BARF thing, but do you ever have dates that go well?

Like, do you only tell us the shitty stuff, but you're actually a regular casanova? Or do you really have this much difficulty with dating?

I have good dates. Did last saturday and the 2nd date is tomorrow. After dinner/drinks we passed on a movie and new a spot up the street with a city view. It was 11ish and snuck on the golf course, checked out the stars and sucked face :laughing Few days later she texted asking how I was and when were getting together again.

I made a joke about height referring to her job, she said she was taller than most girls which I thought was off from Facebook. I asked how tall and the rest happened. I ask because I'm used to it being an issue and dont want to waste my time, thats all.
 
That jpeg is pretty stupid, considering the mean or average (forgot which) American is only about 5'10"

I've also never heard of very tall people being called "faggots". Whoever created that jpeg probably never gets out very much.

Sounds like manlet rage :laughing
 
As a shortarse [5'5"] that has had a very crappy dating life since moving to US I can say from experience that girls don't judge their actual height vs yours. They judge their height in heels vs yours and even then they prefer to look up at you.
Its weird. I actually dated a 4'11" girl and while I really liked her I honestly felt she was too short in some ways.
 
I made a joke about height referring to her job, she said she was taller than most girls which I thought was off from Facebook. I asked how tall and the rest happened. I ask because I'm used to it being an issue and dont want to waste my time, thats all.

Dubs why you so hung up on the height thing?
 
Her insecurity about her own height makes her desire a much taller guy so that her offspring can be "normal". It's that subliminal maternal instinct. We're not much more advanced than animals.

It's not even that. It's just a pitiful desire to conform to a heteronormative societal standard.

Yeah yeah, manlet rage. I'm 5'8" :laughing
 
It's not even that. It's just a pitiful desire to conform to a heteronormative societal standard.

Yeah yeah, manlet rage. I'm 5'8" :laughing

I'm glad you edited to save me from calling you out. Luckily I'm working and not drinking otherwise I'd be abusing my mod powers changing all the manlets avatars to the sad frog picture
 
Dubs why you so hung up on the height thing?

It doesnt bother me. I mean to a point. I dont think I could date a 6ft girl. Trying to make out and asking her to bend down ehh.

That said, its just been my eperience. I've dated taller before. Most want to rock the 3-4" heels and still have a guy their height or taller.
 
It doesnt bother me. I mean to a point. I dont think I could date a 6ft girl. Trying to make out and asking her to bend down ehh.

That said, its just been my eperience. I've dated taller before. Most want to rock the 3-4" heels and still have a guy their height or taller.

Maybe it is a California thing, but I don't meet many women who wear anything but flats or kitten heels or a boot with a bit of heel.

Are you dating strippers?
 
fixed for truth and political correctedness

(the all new and improved BARF)

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has their been a change in conduct rules for the Sink?

Will I have to while away the non riding winter months (it is -4 right now) somewhere else?
 
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