The original poster is on a Harley-Davidson Dyna Wide Glide. Those look like this:
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How exactly do you pinch the tank with your knees on one of those?

Anyone that chooses a bike that was tossing function in the toilet, and built for a look that appeals to knuckle draggers...
Has problems of their own doing (or un-doing).
Sheesh
The good part, is that bike is a lesson in everything that should be avoided.

Should be able to fix it with some straight bars and a scott damper.
And you say I know nothing about You.
This!
Ant's recommendation is also good but I found that it temporary and can partially distract your arm movements in the event of any evasive actions.
+1 Seat like that needs a backrest. Then he can wiggle his arms like a pro.I disagree with the lot of ya, if I had those foot forward controls I'd be holding on for dear life too !![]()
Thanks for all the great suggestions
How do I do that? Any pointers?
When you sit on your bike, how much of your weight is distributed between the seat and the handlebar? You may need some bar riser or barback to put less weight on your hands and wrists.
About your original question, a death grip could be due to you exceeding your comfort level. In other words, you are entering twists and turns too fast. Two things to try:
1. Enter the turns in a lower gear from what you are doing now. Reving your engine higher lets you control your entry speed more with your throttle and less with your brake.
2. Swivel your head and smoothly accelerate out of the turn toward where your chin is pointing you. How quickly you accelerate out of the turn depends on your feel of your tire traction, road condition and bike suspension. Don't be lazy with swiveling your head, it makes your turn smoother and reduces the tension in your neck and hands.
Very much a mental thing and (bad) learned behavior.
I'm guessing that you don't do a whole lot of dirt riding.Arm pump, death grip is one of the biggest complaints in the dirt. I see it no different in street.
I'm guessing that you don't do a whole lot of dirt riding.
Riding through rough stuff in the dirt, sometimes it's all I can do to just hang on to the bike. My arms get a real workout just making it through a challenging trail. And that's nothing compared to the pro riders on a motocross track. Fast riding in the twisties for an hour is less of a workout on my arms than five minutes on a difficult trail somewhere like Georgetown.
Fatigue and age both.based on your reply sounds more like fatigue
Fatigue and age both.
I still don't believe there is no difference in arm pump between riding street and dirt, even for someone at the level of Ryan Villopoto or James Stewart.