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Mgtow

72SBC said:
You’re being realistic, the problem is women today are not. That’s what the Mgtow is about.
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If that's true then why have I had so many partners?

I am quite clear about what I can offer (not much by mgtow standards) and what I expect. It's worked rather well and to mutual benefit. Our household works pretty well.

Of course I don't subscribe to mgtow's standards of respect, loyalty, and all that nor to their priorities.

Mgtow comes off like religion to me, and some of the preachers are making money from the flock's frustrations. Just as kids will do anything for validation some of the followers are happy to give money to those who succor their wounded egos.
 
MysterYvil said:
If that's true then why have I had so many partners?

I am quite clear about what I can offer (not much by mgtow standards) and what I expect. It's worked rather well and to mutual benefit. Our household works pretty well.

Of course I don't subscribe to mgtow's standards of respect, loyalty, and all that nor to their priorities.

Mgtow comes off like religion to me, and some of the preachers are making money from the flock's frustrations. Just as kids will do anything for validation some of the followers are happy to give money to those who succor their wounded egos.
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I don’t think you’re getting it. I’ll make it simpler. Women act as if they are the gold standard because they have a vagina and a lot of guys are sick of it.

I think some of the Mgtow guys are a little over the top but the message is about men improving them self’s and to not worry about chasing the dragon (women)so much and to treat them and hold them to the same standards you would a man/friend/coworker.
 
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72SBC said:
I don’t think you’re getting it. I’ll make it simpler. Women act as if they are the gold standard because they have a vagina and a lot of guys are sick of it.

I think some of the Mgtow guys are a little over the top but the message is about men improving them self’s and to not worry about chasing the dragon (women)so much and to treat them and hold them to the same standards you would a man/friend/coworker.
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You are absolutely correct; I don't get it. I clearly stated that previously in this thread.

If vagina is not the gold standard to the mgtow and incel crowds then why do they spend so much time complaining about women? If vagina is irrelevant to them shouldn't they just move along, become monks, priests, homosexuals, whatever? Why the tantrums and whining?
 
Mgtow date women, incels do not and hold contempt. Again Mgtow- hold women accountable, keep your values, promote success and deny beta behavior.

Incel- beta neck beard males with no confidence that want relationships but can’t and then hold women in contempt.

2 totally separate things. Mgtow rejects incels.
 
mgtow forum seems like a giant echo chamber of frustration...
 
72SBC said:
Mgtow date women, incels do not and hold contempt. Again Mgtow- hold women accountable, keep your values, promote success and deny beta behavior.

Incel- beta neck beard males with no confidence that want relationships but can’t and then hold women in contempt.

2 totally separate things. Mgtow rejects incels.
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Got it. They are two different religions, both of which hold their values to be the "correct" ones.
 
I caught a documentary named The Red Pill. I think I learned about the film here on BARF. Is was painful to watch but I stuck with it. I actually felt sympathy for several of the main characters by the end. :thumbup

Reading the thread shared by the OP in this thread... I just see a guy who’s made one bad relationship choice on top of another and is now seeking comfort through finding someone else to blame. No shit given. :thumbdown
 
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Daniel is obviously a performance artist, I seriously doubt that any young person would try to woo a woman while wearing white tube socks that are visible mid-shin.
 
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Vaginas are beautiful!
Not all women reflect the mgtow description.
If some men believe that women are all looking for the next best thing then good luck in relationship-may you one day learn to trust again.
 
Agent Orange said:
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So? If Danny boy here can't make clear early on that he wants to be more than friends, how is this her problem? He is just as responisible for the "friend zone" he finds himself in as she is. Also, he may be perfectly happy about it. If he isn't happy about it, well then it's on him to stop chasing the unattainable and move on.
If our princess one day findes herself lonely because she friend zoned all her potential mates and now she has to be the cat lady welp, dems the breaks.

I don't see anything about this snapshot of a relationship that warrents a support group or movement.
 
That's funny :teeth

You sound just like the women you're complaining about. :rofl

72SBC said:
Women used to be able to get away with that but, they used to offer different things than they do now. Women used to offer exclusivity, companionship, and traditional gender role child raising. Men used to offer security and be the providers. Now women are so promiscuous at a young age and are no longer offering what a traditional man would consider wife qualities. Why would you want to settle down with a chick and have kids with a woman that’s been riding a bunch of bad boy dick for years till her looks started to fade and now she wants to settle down or the woman who put career first and disregarded everything else and now the clock is ticking before she can’t have kids and the first thing out of her mouth is “do you want kids?” Yeah no thanks. I think things like Tinder and online dating are to blame too because it takes the chase out of today’s courting. Now women just look for the 666(6 foot, 6 pack abs, 6 figure income, aka the unicorn) and they think they can get it whenever they want till, they can’t.

I just broke up with a chick that started letting the crazy out a little too early. I said “ Why would I date you and put up with this nonsense I can hook up with the 20 year old you without commitment? The look on her face was gold when she figured it out.


This sums it up....... a good watch about reality vs what women think they deserve.

https://youtu.be/zlLH_ph74Es


And please don’t think I’m a woman hating man. I love women and enjoy their company. I don’t enjoy bratty child women or crazy demanding psychos. I believe in holding people accountable and if women are applying all these standards to men, men should do the same.
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Mike95060 said:
So? If Danny boy here can't make clear early on that he wants to be more than friends, how is this her problem? He is just as responisible for the "friend zone" he finds himself in as she is. Also, he may be perfectly happy about it. If he isn't happy about it, well then it's on him to stop chasing the unattainable and move on.
If our princess one day findes herself lonely because she friend zoned all her potential mates and now she has to be the cat lady welp, dems the breaks.

I don't see anything about this snapshot of a relationship that warrents a support group or movement.
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It's supposed to be funny. Just laugh.
 
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