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my girl no longer

lizard said:
Otherwise I'd be dating Gina Gerson.

Gina Gershon is HOT.

What's that movie with her and... what's her name??? Where they are lovers in the middle of a mob scene and they kill the mobsters and live happily ever after?

Med23, are you seriously asking this group of lovelorn losers for advice?

Do what your heart tells you is right. Don't listen to a bunch of bitter old bikers and young pistolero wannabes.

:p
 
lizard said:
You can't make someone like you.

Yes you can. Sure when I remove the duct tape their mouths say mean awful things that they don't mean, but their eyes always say "I love you".
 
SprinklerHead said:
but their eyes always say "I love you".

It is the swelling shut that says "I love you" not the eyeballs themselves...

BTW, that guy in your closet two weeks ago must REALLY love you....
 
Valgar said:
It is the swelling shut that says "I love you" not the eyeballs themselves...

BTW, that guy in your closet two weeks ago must REALLY love you....

He's still loving me, but now it's the cloudy look in his non moving eyes that tell me he loves me.
 
Med23 said:
What is weird too is that she calls to say hello, and I do too (usually no anwer from her), and I feel the friendship is still there at least.

that quote right there does it for me, fuck the bitch. she uses you and your time when she wants to, and ignores you when you're the one who needs some attention. that's not friendship.

she wants to try something new, see other people, fine, she can go fuck herself. the above is typical of one-sided relationships i see all the time.

if you're a good guy, let her go out and see how much the rest of the dating scene sucks, but don't be her emotional support while she's out fucking other guys. that's you getting used, and that's fucking lame.

when she finds out she did something stupid and you were the best thing in her life and she comes running back to you, i hope you have a beautiful new girlfriend with big giant titties. and then i hope she cries.

people need to learn to appreciate what they have in front of them. if you haven't seen her all summer long, and she's wanting to break up now, i'd be willing to bet a hefty sum of money that she's already seeing other people or that she has several phone numbers she's going to call the first weekend you are officially broken up. girls don't dump guys to be by themselves, they dump guys because they think they have a chance at a bigger better boyfriend.
 
You know, I was going to say something similar to what cardinal just said... But I figured you two had been together for 6+ years so I gave her the benefit of doubt. In most cases, cardinal is right... And I can only hope that he's wrong in your case, but he's probably right too.
 
GetaGripGreg said:
Gina Gershon is HOT.

What's that movie with her and... what's her name??? Where they are lovers in the middle of a mob scene and they kill the mobsters and live happily ever after?

Do what your heart tells you is right.

:p

The movie is called "Bound"....

It's good to listen to your heart, but it can deceive you also. Good luck!
 
I think that the 'other' (Jennifer Tilly) woman in "Bound" is HOTTER. Gina Gershon is too skinny for me.
Great Advice Cardinal03!!!!
Type3- Don't say; "I was going to say that....." BS- I was going to start a company called "Microsoft", but somebody else beat me to it. Now, I'm just a lowly Janitor. ha ha ha

Sprinklerhead + Valger-
You two are some sick F@#$%ers!!!!! You made me choke on my fude!!!!
 
Re: Re: my girl no longer

cardinal03 said:
...people need to learn to appreciate what they have in front of them. if you haven't seen her all summer long, and she's wanting to break up now, i'd be willing to bet a hefty sum of money that she's already seeing other people or that she has several phone numbers she's going to call the first weekend you are officially broken up. girls don't dump guys to be by themselves, they dump guys because they think they have a chance at a bigger better boyfriend.

True... but... w/o rainy days, sunny days can never really be truly appreciated. Maybe she's just confused, and needs some time alone to think things through. We have no idea what their situation is...

I sooooo used to be like that... after a break up, "fuck you, don't call me bitch." All or nothing type thing... That's so fuckin' stupid. Seriously... I've ruined so many friendships/relationships that way. Things change, people change, feelings change... Learning to deal w/ them, rationally and maturely, will only make you a stronger person. A better person... and make your future relationships that much better.

I dunn' know... maybe I'm just talkin' outta' my ass. :shurg:
 
Re: Re: my girl no longer

cardinal03 said:
girls don't dump guys to be by themselves, they dump guys because they think they have a chance at a bigger better boyfriend.

Yeah, I think she may think her standards are higher now. She is making 40g's a year now, and I'm still in college, making close to nothing and putting the majority of that miniscule amount of money into the bike.
 
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