No one here is picking on you, except maybe VTRider, and he is going to cut that shit out as well, baiting and flaming is just as much a violation of the TOS, although with less severe repercussions.
You need to step back and take a breather dude. If you think your responses to the rep received are even remotely similar to the responses by VTRider, you are way to close to the situation. If you equate a threat of physical harm to laughing off a comment, you need to take a chill pill.
When someone says fuck off and die, do you really think they're threatening you? What did it do to you other than just get you all hot and bothered. Nothing, that's what.
And one more time I will spell it out for you.
W-E.....D-O.....N-O-T.....A-N-D.....C-A-N-N-O-T.....E-N-F-O-R-C-E.....T-H-E.....T-O-S.....O-N.....P-R-I-V-A-T-E.....M-E-S-S-A-G-E-S.....A-N-D .....R-E-P.
We will, however, strictly enforce the TOS on public posts. Threaten someone openly on the board with a clear threat of physical harm, and say bye bye.