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Online Dating, whats your experience?

My legs are pasty and my mechanical skills sub subpar. I'm not a suitable date. :x
 
Can I get a list of rules, so I know which ones to break?
 
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My question is...how many people are you talking to and seeing in person at a time? You really dont know if you click until you go on a few dates.

Even a blind pig can find an acorn...

Whatever floats your boat I say.
 
Got tix to Florence and the Machine next Friday. Girl I went on a date with and talking with didnt thrill me. Decided screw it and messaged a cute 21 year old on OKC (I'm 30) who seemed fun. Asked if she wanted to meet for coffee/dog hike this weekend and then hit the concert Friday of next week. Got a reply few hours later she's down to meet and go. :thumbup
 
Got tix to Florence and the Machine next Friday. Girl I went on a date with and talking with didnt thrill me. Decided screw it and messaged a cute 21 year old on OKC (I'm 30) who seemed fun. Asked if she wanted to meet for coffee/dog hike this weekend and then hit the concert Friday of next week. Got a reply few hours later she's down to meet and go. :thumbup

Stalker!

And good on you.
 
Solid date last night! Pretty stoked how she didnt play games and was free and down to go out the night I asked. My experience most girls even if are free don't like being asked out the day of. I just said I was busy tuesday-thursday and she quickly responded with "are you asking if I'm free tonight?" I dig girls that are not passive. Very stoked too as she tiny. I'm 5'6 and now around 150lbs so my window is pretty small.

Couple beers, 3+ hours of convo then drove her back so she didnt have to walk downtown oakland home. Made out like high schoolers in the car :laughing Only 1st date too bitches :twofinger

Damn neighbor told me before I left to not go cuz the girl is 30, no car and 3 years from being done with school. But damn did we click in email and texts, great convo and damn she could kiss. Neighbor is 32 and said he looking to date the "young and dumb" hmm.. not sure bout that.

We'll see. Promising date saturday with a girl closer with a car and done with school AND of course the girl that was behind my "No Kiss 3rd Date" thread 4 years ago is back on Match. We've messaged and joked how awkward we were then :laughing.
 
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"My question is...how many people are you talking to and seeing in person at a time? You really dont know if you click until you go on a few dates."

Dating quite a few 'at a time' until I met one who was so good I didn't want to date anyone else.
 
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