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Online Dating, whats your experience?

Online dating as a man:
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As a woman:
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Also, I just saw this and busted up laughing...bold emphasis mine:

Message me if u want to kno Ps don't message me if ur a thug, ur pants hang to ur knee caps u can't spell u post forums of how girls are ****es or if u can't figure out which way is the rihgt way to wear ur hat.... Thanks Oh n yeah I am a ****
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OMFG, what a waste. Well hey, I made a new 'friend' :|

Meeting another girl tonight. She seems funny at least and she's 11 years younger then me :wtf
 
Too much digital communication is a sign she's just interested in the fantasy of being pursued.

You can score with them easy enough as long as you play "don't give a fuck." You give them too much attention and you're sunk for sure.
 
Traq said:
Too much digital communication is a sign she's just interested in the fantasy of being pursued.

You can score with them easy enough as long as you play "don't give a fuck." You give them too much attention and you're sunk for sure.
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Love the ones that want to be penpals :laughing

I'm really digging the ebb and flow of online dating. There will be very quite periods where I get no responses and all the profiles are the same and then there are times where I'm emailing and meeting several.

Hiking date with a 24 year old past weekend. Seems cool, just didnt feel it. May decide on a 2nd date just to see.

Have any of you wondered why you never got a response back despite on paper matching everything the person is looking for? Mind boggling really. I think I may wait a week or so and then politely ask, be interesting in the response.

To toss a wrench into my situation, my ex moved back home with her 17 month old boy. Living at home with her mom she is. I have will power but there's always been something about her damnit! :mad My logical/rational side says no, she doesnt have a steady job, 1 year left to get her masters and school isnt on her mind, has a child etc. But the other side says she's hot, doesnt drink, smoke, do drugs, shares many same interests, active, more into giving bedroom wise now :laughing and we seem to click.
 
Pictures of you on your bike, helmet.

Leaves your fugly mug up to the imagination.
 
Dubbington said:
Hiking date with a 24 year old past weekend. Seems cool, just didnt feel it. May decide on a 2nd date just to see.
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First date with this chick, I wasn't feeling it. Went in for the goodnight kiss anyway.

Holy shit.

Five months later we were married. :teeth
 
Traq said:
Too much digital communication is a sign she's just interested in the fantasy of being pursued.

You can score with them easy enough as long as you play "don't give a fuck." You give them too much attention and you're sunk for sure.
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When I was online dating I cut right to here is what I like about your profile, take a look at mine, if you like it let me know if you want to go have a drink somewhere. Always a quick drink or meetup on the first meeting. I am not committing to dinner with someone I don't know.

As for your second part about attention, that seems to be generally true online or offline.
 
revnort said:
As for your second part about attention, that seems to be generally true online or offline.
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Online is different because they're typically playing a bunch of swinging dicks at the same time. It's totally about them stroking their own ego. Give them a little and then let them come back to you. Otherwise you're just a fluffer.
 
Dubbington said:
To toss a wrench into my situation, my ex moved back home with her 17 month old boy. Living at home with her mom she is. I have will power but there's always been something about her damnit! :mad My logical/rational side says no, she doesnt have a steady job, 1 year left to get her masters and school isnt on her mind, has a child etc. But the other side says she's hot, doesnt drink, smoke, do drugs, shares many same interests, active, more into giving bedroom wise now :laughing and we seem to click.
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But, there's a reason she's your ex. And has another ex she had a kid with. And is living with her mother. Run away, it isn't ever that good.
 
Traq said:
Online is different because they're typically playing a bunch of swinging dicks at the same time. It's totally about them stroking their own ego. Give them a little and then let them come back to you. Otherwise you're just a fluffer.
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Agent Orange said:
Whats the trick to messaging? I get a bunch of views, but hardly any ever replies.
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Depends on what route you want to take and really girls are all different. One thing not to do is have a copy and pasted response, thats easy to tell I guess and dont just say "hi you're cute" or something lame.

The stroking ego can work I guess. I usually relate to their profile some how, show I read it, try and mix in a joke. Sometime the profile is so vanilla I just stare at a blank email cuz there isnt anything to write aside from hammering them with questions.

Comes down to options and if the girl is willing to date outside of what she is looking for I feel. If they aren't, they'll be on there awhile. Online dating gives guys more options and I feel it gives women the chance to be ultimately picky and unrealistic. They havent come to terms they are online dating for a reason....that what they normally were looking for they couldnt find and should use online dating to expand their criteria. Rarely they do.
 
assmodeus said:
call me old fashioned, but i much prefer women that are more into taking than giving when it comes to the sexytime...
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I prefer a little bit of balance, but sex just ain't good unless the other person is having an awesome time. That is the biggest turn on for me.
 
assmodeus said:
call me old fashioned, but i much prefer women that are more into taking than giving when it comes to the sexytime...
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revnort said:
I prefer a little bit of balance, but sex just ain't good unless the other person is having an awesome time. That is the biggest turn on for me.
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Helloooooooooo, Boys! :wave :leghump
 
Momo- you are so delightfully skeevy! :laughing

My ex was a taker. :x

Mr Raul is a giver. I rather like it. Yay for OKCupid! :banana I didn't find love but I have found someone that I like a lot who's ridiculously good at what he does and his margaritas cannot be beat. :leghump
 
Both people having jolly good time during sexy time is the key. Of course for that communication is a key. Unless one can read minds or something. :laughing
 
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