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Pity sex with an ex -- is it worth it?

Is he Hawt?

He isn't gonna care now if he didn't then--and your frisson of interest is a likely sign that it's time to go hunting, not chew the bones of old kills.
 
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masameet said:
I'm a fairly forgiving person. I know if we were together again, I wouldn't hold my angry feelings against him. I still love him after all.

I want to move on. Just haven't found the new guy yet.
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Let him find a new parking place for his junk. Your probably better than that I'm sure.

New sex is better than an old bastards baggage. There's some cool guys out there and probably here too.

cheers.........
 
NSA freinds?:wave:teeth
Psychochik said:
Then this would not be a good thing for you. For him, he's probably just in it for the sex but it sounds like you have feelings that cant just be put aside for sex. I would say no to this and just find yourself a no strings friend until the next guy comes along.
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masameet said:
I'm a fairly forgiving person. I know if we were together again, I wouldn't hold my angry feelings against him. I still love him after all.

I want to move on. Just haven't found the new guy yet.
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If you want to move on, having sex isn't the best approach. That's nt moving on as far as I can tell. As a guy, I can promise you he hasn't changed.

If you just want to have some sex (even really good sex) there are about 6,527 BARFers ready, willing and able. :rofl

Seriously, find a new person to set up a booty call if that's what you desire. Sex with ex probably has TOO MUCH baggage.
 
I don't get it...a lady comes on barf offering up pity sex to someone and there isn't a line of leg humpers here being pathetic? Teh BARF must have not be feeling well today (needs pity sex?) :laughing
 
Ex's come pre-screened, and they ALREADY know where you live.
 
masameet said:
I'm contemplating it.

Fucker calls me up this morning and leaves a message.

"I'm back in the 'States! Just re-activated my old cell number. 415-xxx-xxxx. Call me."

Odd thing is these past few days I've been thinking about him.

[Sigh] I should just forget him.
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Is there more to this story than just that? Otherwise it sounds like you're the one asking for it!

What, a guy can't just call up an old GF to say hi after being out of the country? It just automatically means he's trying to get back in your pants?! Soooo sexist. :eek:ffendedface
 
masameet said:
I'm contemplating it.

Fucker calls me up this morning and leaves a message.

"I'm back in the 'States! Just re-activated my old cell number. 415-xxx-xxxx. Call me."

Odd thing is these past few days I've been thinking about him.

[Sigh] I should just forget him.
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I'm pretty sure we'll need several nude pictures of you to give you good advice. Please do the needful.
 
cardinal03 said:
I'm pretty sure we'll need several nude pictures of you to give you good advice. Please do the needful.
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+1. I can't offer sex to you OP, cuz you will start a Pitiful sex thread afterwards :p
 
Please don't do it.

Do ME instead!!!!!

There is a good reason the two of you broke up. Call/PM me/ if you need a good 'friend' to talk to.
 
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