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Post / Chat whores post here (2026)

Speaking of nerds:
Wine bar / book store
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I have done so many chores today.
 
Evening folks. Not exactly been having the best of times recently but what I will say is the Spotify algorithm provides the music I need when I need it. But Spotify has my preferences since 2011.

Lady Gaga - Bad Romance
Hope the times get better for ya, I too have not been super stoked on all things lately. I think a ride tomorrow will be a nice respite from the crap.
 
Quads can hurt you. When my knee was rebuilt they harvested tendons from my quad and hamstrings. I have never fully recovered.
 
took a hot shower after I had a cup of tea. I feel the sleeps approaching
 
I am about to take a bath because I like baths.
 
me too. my fav.

on another note, tonight, crazy old dude asked me to write his biography. said he has ‘boxes full of random, but meticulous notes’. described a bit of what’s in them (treasure trove of missions and adventures, including how he lost an arm). wants to give them to me, and have me put it into his life story. have only written fiction to this point, but call me… intrigued. i said yes. exciting. gimme all the material. am hoping i can do it justice. definitely won’t be for lack of trying. and i already know how the story ends. conversation with a woman he barely knows. ‘did i tell you about the time…’
 
me too. my fav.

on another note, tonight, crazy old dude asked me to write his biography. said he has ‘boxes full of random, but meticulous notes’. described a bit of what’s in them (treasure trove of missions and adventures, including how he lost an arm). wants to give them to me, and have me put it into his life story. have only written fiction to this point, but call me… intrigued. i said yes. exciting. gimme all the material. am hoping i can do it justice. definitely won’t be for lack of trying. and i already know how the story ends. conversation with a woman he barely knows. ‘did i tell you about the time…’
Maybe that's how it should begin.

The horses busted through the gate last night and are wandering the yard. Somehow, HER absolute first reaction was to blame me. Because you know, I breathed or something.
 
It’s a fear reaction. Lashing out isn’t ok, but it’s a behavior that I recognize in myself that I am working hard to correct.
 
I have an appt for a steroid injection in my neck on Monday... and I threw my back out yesterday. :facepalm
Now I'm trying to hobble around this house on 2 canes. Wife is back at work, the demon-dog is bouncing off the walls and I'm not able to take him for his morning walk.
And I'm currently not drinking or smoking. :nchantr
Other than that... life is fantastic! :laughing
 
the blame game is never fun, I usually just take the blame and move on. If I can I never deal with the blamer again then I don't.
 
I’m currently being held down by the cat and dog who wish to stay in bed all day.
 
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