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Singles Events???

Would you go to a singles event?

  • Yes, sounds great!

    Votes: 41 50.6%

  • No way, I'm otherwise involved with a significant other.

    Votes: 16 19.8%

  • Maybe, depends on what, where, and when.

    Votes: 24 29.6%
  • Total voters
    81
see we lagged too long and got it moved!!!! :mad :x

Let's do this people!!! quit procrastihatin' and lets get
the male and female singles together for an event...... :thumbup

I'm telling you that the Sloshball game will be a great place to start.......sports food beefy guys hitting the ball and tossing the pigskin and beer it's all there.......meet people there and discuss bring a hat with names and pull out matches to go for a 10 min time out walk around the park.....whatever is clever.......
:twofinger
 
vivaglamangel said:
I'm sure all the girls would agree. . that we're not looking for a wam bam thank ya mam deal. . .but if you are. .I'm sure the girls on broadway would be more than accomodating to your needs. . .
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p3wned! :laughing
 
lizard said:
Hey, only single, unattached humans!

Those with significant others, you fixed your bed, now lay in it, goddamnit!
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right on lizard! :laughing
 
Well, the after Sloshball party at South First is the first event...
Other than that, the plan is to have a billiards/dancing night every 3rd weekend of the month. Alternating between San Jose and San Francisco.

The first weekend of the month will be the rides/lunch.

I'm tentatively planning to have the Red & White dancing cruise on Friday night Dec 5. This is the one that will cost us. SO SEND ME AN EMAIL ( Shantik1@aol.com ) THAT YOU WANT TO GO... WE NEED 150 PEOPLE FOR THIS TO BE A GO. And need to know before hand (deposit required for the boat).

Also I'm working on getting a bowling league together (I need someone from the South bay/SF to help with this) one for North and East bay, the other for South Bay & SF. That way at the end of the league, those of you who are good at bowling can have an all-stars game. Those of who are not so good can cheer you on!! :)

So get off your duff and let me know about the Red & White cruise.

Also, other ideas I've had are a BARF family Thanksgiving and New Year's Eve Party. And we need to support Tokyodelicious in her halloween party!!
 
Hooli said:
p3wned! :laughing
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You know your lookin for the same thing hooli, just in purple...


:teeth

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Ok Albany Bowl for the East bay Bowling sound good?

I'm down for the Red & White cruise ....will email........

I'll be hammered after Sloshball and a BARF Friend is having her
birthday party at Hooters that night.......Plus Cat in SF has
an After party planned at her house.

Everything else sounds good.

Let's get on it People!!!! More social gatherings less talk. Whether singles meet or not. I just want to meet more
females interested in Motorcycles.

Le Garcon Rond
 
Roundboy said:
Ok Albany Bowl for the East bay Bowling sound good?

I'm down for the Red & White cruise ....will email........



Let's get on it People!!!! More social gatherings less talk. Whether singles meet or not. I just want to meet more
females interested in Motorcycles.

Le Garcon Rond
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now that's the kind of attitude everyone should have. . .:)
 
yo roundbizzle...where the hell is albany bowl...where in the e.bay is it...im always down for some sloshbowling...if u want i can help arrange the southbay one...just let me know...

THIS SATURDAY THE 20TH...COME WATCH ROUNDBOY AND THE REST OF THE NORTHBAY PANZYS GET SLAUGHTERED!!! WE WILL DRINK UR BEER...EAT UR FOOD AND STEAL UR WOMEN!!! (as long as they are women..cant really tell..frisco has a lot of weird people..) :twofinger
 
What Viet (masterbatermind) meant to say is that
he will be drinking from the special Southbay Keg.....go to
the thread Sloshball III I've posted a nice pic for the southbay


Albany Bowl is on San Pablo in Albany the city between Berkeley
and El Cerrito. They have a bar there so yes you can drink and bowl. There are lots of lanes there......they also have billards.

Not to bastardize the thread but he started it.......:twofinger
 
Not all women like to be manhandled like that......this world is influenced by Male dominance and it is detremental to the interpersonal relationships that we have with each other.... Women don't want to be treated like an inferior bent over piece of meat wanting to be spanked like a parent spanks a child........


I like how Salma Hayek speaks about why she still isn't Married. She says she's waiting to meet a guy with more 'balls' than her. Most guys are actually scurd and don't have what it takes to be what everyone expects them to be. The expectations are part of the problem because when somebody acts against the norm people say they are wierd or the are ostracized by others. Men may act Macho but sometimes it is just a screen or cover up for their insecurities.

In all reality feminine qualities can be just as agressive and strong we just don't view them in that way.....

Personally I will admit to any faults I may have. I have no shame in that. I will admit that I pay attention to my masculine and feminine peronalitiy traits as equally as possible. We all have qualities and things we would like to work on regarding personality and character but we should all develope both sides so that we don't go around acting like sexist beings.

Too deep or righteous for you? Sorry just ranting and raving I guess......

Jesse aka
Roundboy
 
wow! I'm totally at awwww. . .with the way you think. . .being physically attracted to a person is one thing. . .but having a mental attraction to a person is deeper. . . .and you are soo right about the way women want to be treated. . .which makes me wonder why you are not taken already. . .lol. . .but like they say the. . .good things come to those who wait. . .
 
I think Sir Boy of Round touched on something really important. It's expectations. The fact of the matter is that we tend to approach a situation with certain expectations in mind. We assume things are going to happen a certain way and deal with it, more or less gracefully depending on our personalities.

Unfortunately, especially in relationship, those expectations are largely shaped by situations that have little or nothing to do with the current situation. We carry way too much over from previous relationships, think we've "learned something" and in reality, haven't. Most of the time, what we've learned is a strategy for dealing with a specific person but since we have a heavy tendency to generalize, we end up carrying those strategies over to the next situation. Sometimes they work, most of the time, you end up so wrong that you can't understand the situation because you are looking at it from the wrong frame of mind.

I think that it's really important to approach things with a clean slate and an open mind to try and learn about new relationships without trying to apply what you think you've "learned" from past relationships... invariably we end up deviating from the uniqueness that makes us who we are. It's plainly obvious who is being genuine and who isn't... and even if you fool someone, how long do you really think you can keep it up?

ok, sorry for the off topic.
 
There are many reasons as to why I am not taken yet. A lot of them have to do with the fact that I look for more than just physical attraction and also because it is hard to find somebody who will keep it real with you and be completely honest.

I guess I'm picky too.....:p


And WHAT? Roundboy has a soft side? :wow

He's not just about goofin' off and jumping off roofs into Hottubs at parties and causing trouble as a hooligan on his motorcycle?

Hard to believe sometimes huh?:teeth :shhh

Thanks Vivaglamangel,
Your comments have been well noted and I appreciate your kindness and the sweet sound (appearance) of your typed/voiced words.
 
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aaaahhh. . I wouldn't say picky. .your just being very selective as to whom you would like to share special moments with. .and there is definately nothing wrong w/ that. . . there's also nothing wrong w/ knowing what u want:)
 
RRkit: you touch on some other important issues......:thumbup
what you bring to each new relationship......does it dwell on things you've learned in the past......are you starting clean slate?

All of these things make for interesting conversations.......

Also by calling me Sir Boy of Round it makes me think......past lives......wonder if I was a Knight of the Round Table.....:confused
 
Roundboy said:
Not all women like to be manhandled like that......this world is influenced by Male dominance and it is detremental to the interpersonal relationships that we have with each other.... Women don't want to be treated like an inferior bent over piece of meat wanting to be spanked like a parent spanks a child........


I like how Salma Hayek speaks about why she still isn't Married. She says she's waiting to meet a guy with more 'balls' than her. Most guys are actually scurd and don't have what it takes to be what everyone expects them to be. The expectations are part of the problem because when somebody acts against the norm people say they are wierd or the are ostracized by others. Men may act Macho but sometimes it is just a screen or cover up for their insecurities.

In all reality feminine qualities can be just as agressive and strong we just don't view them in that way.....

Personally I will admit to any faults I may have. I have no shame in that. I will admit that I pay attention to my masculine and feminine peronalitiy traits as equally as possible. We all have qualities and things we would like to work on regarding personality and character but we should all develope both sides so that we don't go around acting like sexist beings.

Too deep or righteous for you? Sorry just ranting and raving I guess......

Jesse aka
Roundboy
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Dude....what HAPPENED to ya!?!?!?

Don't tell me someones got ya watching Oprah and Dr. Phil.

That shit will rot your brain! Walk towards the light...don't be tempted by the dark side!!! :cry
 
Here! Here! Roundboy and RRkit. You have both expressed a lot of wisdom in your statements. Very insightful! Thanks

Greg
 
Roundboy said:
RRkit: you touch on some other important issues......:thumbup
what you bring to each new relationship......does it dwell on things you've learned in the past......are you starting clean slate?

All of these things make for interesting conversations.......

Also by calling me Sir Boy of Round it makes me think......past lives......wonder if I was a Knight of the Round Table.....:confused
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If we are talkin "seriously"....

Jesse is a cool dude. And it is the cool ones you can always give shit too....

So.....continue with the rantin n ravin.....


:teeth
 
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