yama-emma said:
here here! I guess I'd be ok announcing that i am taken, but i don't believe that it should cost anyone a large percentage of their annual income. That's like being bought.
I'd announce that I'm taken, provided my soon-to-be betrothed did the same. Either we both wear engagement rings, or neither of us do! And yeah, don't get me started on the diamond culture around here. It's very difficult for me, because I'm attracted to flash and status, but I really do have a problem with the diamond industry as a whole and try oh so very hard to resist De Beers' marketing efforts.
Last summer I tried on a $10,000 right hand diamond ring at Tiffany's, imagining the envious glares I would get from the ladies around the office, but then thought, wow, for the same amount of money I could wrap my legs around a brand new 117 horsepower machine. I'm sure you can all guess how that story ended.
Many people care a lot about tradition, however, and I respect that. I just hope, for peoples' sake, that they care more about the relationship they're embarking on and less about the pomp and circumstance that comes with getting married. Rings, weddings, status, etc. I do believe in love and wish Cardinal and his girl the very best.
