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What Are You Thinking Of Right Now?

i’m thinking about loss and the pain it brings people.

am also thinking about balancing out my energy. i’ve been a little too fiery and need to get back in balance.
 
I am cosumed by grief. All the joy has been drained from me, leaving a hollow shell. If ever there was an unofficial emotional support animal, it was Max.
I'm terrified of tuesday when my wife goes back to work and i'll be at home without my dog.
Other than that, i'm doing really great.
 
Rtmac said:
I am cosumed by grief. All the joy has been drained from me, leaving a hollow shell. If ever there was an unofficial emotional support animal, it was Max.
I'm terrified of tuesday when my wife goes back to work and i'll be at home without my dog.
Other than that, i'm doing really great.
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There's a nice doggie waiting for you, tail wagging, at the pound right now.
 
let's make certain that this grief doesn't grow into something else. If you are ready/not ready to get another companion, it will not take the place that the room for grieving allows.
My heart and thoughts are with you.
 
I think there are times when we are supposedly doing stuff together yet I feel completely alone.
 
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Rtmac said:
I am cosumed by grief. All the joy has been drained from me, leaving a hollow shell. If ever there was an unofficial emotional support animal, it was Max.
I'm terrified of tuesday when my wife goes back to work and i'll be at home without my dog.
Other than that, i'm doing really great.
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when an pet imprints on you you never lose that, and if you out live that pet then you never forget them. It is one of the hardest things. I wish that you have the best memories of Max.

my cat is gone, this song is what I listen to

 
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Losing a pet can really affect you. But all you can do is be sad and remember all the good times. I’ve been through it twice. And it still hurts sometimes.

And the pain also mirrors the depth of the friendship you shared. Which, though sad, is still a good thing.

‘Hope that makes sense.
 
I still remember my first Chihuahua, Bullet Love on a daily basis. Well maybe not that often but he remains in a large part of my brain.
Time will stabilize feelings but we'll never forget what a huge and lovely part of our lives they partook in.
 
i am thinking i got an email from dailydoxie.com saying that Max von Putinsnifter was their Daily Doxie. He crossed the rainbow bridge years ago. He was such a little jerk, totally a typical barky pissed off Doxie but so stinkin' cute.

I am thinking we are so lucky dogs are part of our existence.
 
ThumperX said:
It’s beginning to hit. I finally cried last night.
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Some time when I feel overwhelmed, I go outside at night and look at all the stars, and outer space to help me realize how insignificant I really am in relation to the universe. I also think of my father, who used to say "A hundred years from now, who'll know the difference". Sorry you're having troubles. My dad also used to say "They can kill you, but they can't eat you". lol

edit: Maybe you should go for a ride. The world will wait.
 
Where does Enchanter get his memes? Does he have a meme hunting bot?
 
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I am thinking it’s a sleepy morning. Still, I have to get my ass out of bed and get to work on retirement stuff. It’s so complicated being retired. First world problems. I will get a ride in today. The dirt in my field is really soft right now.
 
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