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Wow, hella drama up in here :twofinger

I love the name barf, love the double-bird mascot. When I refer to the site to a non rider I say "barf: bay area rider forum" and no one seems to dismiss it automatically as a juvenile site.

1- I want to say that banjoboy is an awesome fellow to ride with and chill with. I was actually quite surprised when I first met him in person as the redneck shtick was gone and replaced by a polite and friendly gentleman who then proceeded to dust me in the dirt on his sport bike with balding tires. Please forgive his online persona- I do think he is worth learning from/knowing.

2- Barf is a wonderful resource and while there are some known trolls I didn't see many in this thread. Most of these "offenders" are generally tame from what I've seen of their posts on other threads. Not that that helps necessarily, just sayin. (As a female) while I see some sexist comments I personally haven't experienced the misogyny others have. Or maybe I gloss right over it, I do hang out with a lot of boys in real life. As I'm sure you know from hanging with males in the cockpit, boys never fully mature :)twofinger) so I don't take anything said on here seriously, as I don't think the majority of comments are genuine attempts to insult. There are a few men on here with obvious/serious problems with women but they are few, in my opinion.

3- Many of the people offering to ride with you (Thumperx, Canyon Dancer etc) I've met in real life and I think you would enjoy meeting them and riding with them. Mark I know less personally but Gwynne (thumper) is a good friend and awesome person.

4...I think I was going somewhere with this but my slight ADD has taken over, lol. So anyways I'll end with, you sound like you're well established with your own friends but I do recommend coming to a rally (the spring rally is May 15-17) if you want to expand your riding circle and meet some of the great people of barf. The real trolls don't ride that far :laughing

Rebekah
 
Just for the record:



banjoboy has been suspended for the above post, which by majority of moderator votes was found in violation of TOS 4.3.
And so other people don't need to look it up
Members shall conduct themselves respectfully when in dispute with a Moderator. Verbal abuse of the volunteer staff may result in additional suspension.
 
Let's be honest:

It's completely possible to think that the BARF name is hilarious, that the twofinger is a completely appropriate greeting to friends, and to be respectful all at the same time. It just requires the barest modicum of social awareness and decency.

If you can't express yourself without devolving to lowest common denominator misogyny in the eyes of your audience, to the point where other people have to apologize for your behavior, maybe it's time you re-assess if you're actually ready to speak in public, or if you should spend a little more time learning about the basics of courtesy and respect.

Frankly, if your "online persona" involves other people apologizing for you on a regular basis, maybe you should reconsider if that persona is actually worth a shit.
 
Well.

Looks like spring is almost here. How about them Giants?

Ahem. Guess we're losing Sandoval. I loved his work at third base...

Did you ever worry about pincher bugs crawling in your ear when you were asleep, laying eggs, and having a whole bunch of pincher bugs eat your head from the inside out?
 
Ahem. Guess we're losing Sandoval. I loved his work at third base...

Did you ever worry about pincher bugs crawling in your ear when you were asleep, laying eggs, and having a whole bunch of pincher bugs eat your head from the inside out?

No

Are you ok bro?
 
We also don't need too much of the macho guy defending his girlfriend actions from everyone on behalf of every female.

Most of the women on here can handle themselves just fine and Lucy did so without any help. She called people out and gave a pleasant attitude and she is "one of us" at this point if she so chooses. We don't need to dogpile everyone she mentioned to try and act like the guardian angel. As has been discussed, online personas aren't always a good representation of our members once you meet them for real.

Live and let live and if you say something that offends someone and they let you know, apologize and move on. It's basic social sensitivity.

That said, I rode Skaggs today for the first time and it was absolutely terrible. Anyone who hasn't ridden it before should definitely stay away. There is nothing gorgeous or fantastic about it at all...:nchantr
 
3000 views in only 5 days, wtf guys. Like you got sufficient game anyway. :rolleyes

And how the hell did you know she was a girl anyway? Did she change her avatar after the original post?
 
We also don't need too much of the macho guy defending his girlfriend actions from everyone on behalf of every female.

Most of the women on here can handle themselves just fine and Lucy did so without any help. She called people out and gave a pleasant attitude and she is "one of us" at this point if she so chooses. We don't need to dogpile everyone she mentioned to try and act like the guardian angel. As has been discussed, online personas aren't always a good representation of our members once you meet them for real.

Live and let live and if you say something that offends someone and they let you know, apologize and move on. It's basic social sensitivity.

That said, I rode Skaggs today for the first time and it was absolutely terrible. Anyone who hasn't ridden it before should definitely stay away. There is nothing gorgeous or fantastic about it at all...:nchantr

Yup, there's a pile of apologies from the guys she called out. Yup, one of them apologized so hard he got banned. Real hardcore apologizin'.
 
Yup, there's a pile of apologies from the guys she called out. Yup, one of them apologized so hard he got banned. Real hardcore apologizin'.

Sorry, I was wrong. We should beat them until they apologize...

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Oooooo, beatings!
 
Time to ride. Have fun Lucy.:thumbup

:ride with a :smile

**thread closed per OP and I**
 
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