I just read through your whole post, and I gotta say, you put way too much energy into this.
Yeah, yeah, I already know what you said, more time than money, but you would be willing to travel hundreds or thousands of miles just to get the best deal? Seriously?
Sometimes things go wrong with a bike and you might need to bring it back to get checked out to ensure no further issues. Would you be willing to make that long journey again? And if you need to leave the bike there, would you be willing to make that trip once again? I see you live in Sacramento so Gridley Honda wasn't "far" for you, however you very well could have gone even farther, and this is the point I'm trying to make to other prospective buyers reading this.
I understand everyone wants to save money and get the best deal, but these shops are a business to produce profits. If they do not produce profits, they shut down, then we're all locked in to travel farther for everything. At least at the shop I worked at, everything was MSRP, the standard freight charged by the manufacturer, the shop setup charge varied by vehicle, and then DMV fees. Everything else came out of manufacturer rebates or/and cuts to the MSRP. And never did we mark anything up while I was there at least, not even the Honda CBR1000RR SP2, not even the Ducati Panigale 1299 R Tricolore Final Edition, and not even the Ducati 1299 Superleggera.
That was also why I was instructed to provide, if it was requested for an out-the-door price, for our BEST PRICE mind you, only MSRP plus fees. If you came to the showroom, ready to purchase with whatever method of payment, or if you were already approved for financing, my boss was much easier to work with and we could make a deal happen, if it made sense. But you would take my very first starting number, email the next dealer and tell them what number you got from me, and of course their response will be "Yeah we can beat it! Bring it in we'll help you out!". Had I given you a couple bucks off from the get go, the competing dealer would still tell you the same thing just to steal a deal.
The reality is that most of these brands, specifically the Japanese brands, have barely any margin in them, if at all. Believe it or not, but the Ducati Scrambler's MSRP was less than the cost of the bike. It may have been true of only the first and second year models which were produced in Italy, but then they were produced in Thailand. During the winter months I was essentially a minimum wage worker with way too much stress.
If you made it this far, I present to you some of my notable achievements to reinforce my opinion on the matter, but I was part of the #1 sales team for Ducati sales in the summer of 2017, I secured a deal with Greg Glassman through his colleague for a six bike sale, only had multiple 5-star reviews on Yelp, and I once "stole" a deal from Carlin Dunne (RIP), although that last one was a customer in our area already, but I did save him a trip to Socal because we made the effort and helped him out.