Men - COMMUNICATE!

[vio]

Dude if you keep poking her Charlie isn't going to get laid for weeks.

Nah.. This is just a wordy thread. Has no bearing what I do in the bedroom. Plus I don't get mad a at CharBurger , I just get sad.

take a look at the number of times men, here on barf, have talked about treating women like objects... then compare that to the number of times that a woman (on barf) has inferred something like that.

I can't believe you even posted that, jeeezus... talk about sensitive

I'm glad that the whole posting of women pron pics aren't allowed to be posted anymore. That stuff was all over the place.

 

[aminalmutha]

my point exactly. it's not retaliation, she's mearly seeking an open ear. why does it have to bad thing. oh i know ... you guys need to shit and disect and puke out somehting negative. i go to where there is an open ear, when i need someone to listen. that's how i roll. if i need a freind and my husband is busy, i find that friend. it's not cheating. but that's exactly how it's gonna go down. her husband will get jelouse that all of a sudden she's communicating to someone else, and it'a a MALE. that was the exact point i was trying to make and i now see you guys get it. why... why is it cheating. why is bad for her to talk to someone else. oh i know.... she only gets to talk to the husband. and if he won't listen then.. hey.. she can't go anyone else. how selfish.

i never implied cheating. not in the least bit. i never said .. 'retaliate' i merely said... if he wont provide an open ear. then go where there is one.

Damn, calm down. This is called "blowing things out of proportion". This also irritates men.

Look, I'm not saying men shouldn't talk or listen or that all women blather incessantly, but communication has to be a two way street. Men don't want to be talked AT or down upon, which happens a lot. Keep it at equal levels. Listen back. Chill. Yeah, if a guy is completely absent, maybe it's time to move on, but being vindictive doesn't help one's cause.

I'm not being misogynistic or stereotypical, just responding to the OP in saying that it goes both ways.

 

[Dubbington]

 

[Cycle61]

^ Truth.

 

[greener]

^ except it was already posted on the first page of this pathetic thread

 

[Dubbington]

^ except it was already posted on the first page of this pathetic thread

Perfect example how men dont listen.....isnt what this is all about



Oh and for being a repost police

 

[TripleSeven]

I guess I'm rare. Every text I send is usually a long, thought out, edited and drawn out essay, with details and facts established. Wait, that's just when I'm reminding her what a cheating POS she is. My bad.

 

[greener]

Don't worry boys, understanding women is easier once you get the right advice.

 

[Nemo Brinker]

Madre de dios, am I glad I'm a lesbian after reading this thread.

 

[norcalkeith]

 

[planegray]

Madre de dios, am I glad I'm a lesbian after reading this thread.

well, at least you've had positive confirmation that ignorance IS bliss !

 

[Entoptic]

Last night I take Erin out to celebrate (something I can't talk about on the forum yet). We are having a good time and I tell her I took the day off today to help my buddy study for his Aikido test. Erin stops the conversation and says "You can take a day off work for your buddy but you can't take a day off work to hang out with my family when they were here."

That was four months ago. FOUR FUCKING MONTHS and I stopped my training and spent all my free time with her family.

 

[kevin 714]

Last night I take Erin out to celebrate (something I can't talk about on the forum yet). We are having a good time and I tell her I took the day off today to help my buddy study for his Aikido test. Erin stops the conversation and says "You can take a day off work for your buddy but you can't take a day off work to hang out with my family when they were here."

That was four months ago. FOUR FUCKING MONTHS and I stopped my training and spent all my free time with her family.

Martial arts is more important than that anyway.

 

[MrIncredible]

It's totally not the same-you probably like your buddy.

 

[kevin 714]

It's totally not the same-you probably like your buddy.

 

[carries an axe]

She jelly

 

[kevin 714]

She jelly

Super jelly


Hmmm let's see, martial arts with the bro, or hanging with not-quite-inlaws

 

[m_asim]

Don't worry boys, understanding women is easier once you get the right advice.

The problem is even when you detect and identify them random signals, classify them, they still will have different meaning at different times. And it is YOUR goddamn fault for not interpreting them right!

For example, if you ask her if everything is ok, the answer will be yes. But a yes doesn't mean that everything is, in fact, ok. Arghhhh!

 

[Hooli]

CharBurger.

 

[Entoptic]

Martial arts is more important than that anyway.

LOL so true!

It's totally not the same-you probably like your buddy.

That is the rub. I have known my friend since I was in preschool but what the fuck does that matter.

She jelly

Super jelly


Hmmm let's see, martial arts with the bro, or hanging with not-quite-inlaws

It was all my free time as well.