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Men - COMMUNICATE!

Are you a good communicator?

  • Yes, I even use proper grammar in my complete sentences!

    Votes: 28 57.1%

  • Nope, but I’ll work on it k.

    Votes: 16 32.7%

  • Bachelor forever! Who cares about crazy, just give me the daily scripture verse! 

    Votes: 11 22.4%
  • Total voters
    49
MikeL said:
You hate men.. I get that vibe.
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On the contrary, If you see me around my husband, it's the opposite. We're super affectionate, with nasty public displays of affection, and I make him a sammich even if it makes me late for work. You'd puke.

Have we met???
 
vio said:
On the contrary, If you see me around my husband, it's the opposite. We're super affectionate, with nasty public displays of affection, and I make him a sammich even if it makes me late for work. You'd puke.

Have we met???
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We have not met, ever since I started hanging out in the sink I'm worried if I go to a BARF meet I'll get suckered into an argument over which kinds of ice cream is best :teeth
 
And on that note I leave you with the daily scripture verse for my little bachelors:
John 14:27 (NIV)
Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.

Wish me luck on my turkey hunt, my hubby also RSVP for a birthday party on the same day :facepalm I told him he could go to the party and I would go hunting. He swatted me :laughing He said I just have to get one fast. :laughing UGH

Communicate with your mates peeps! :laughing
 
thesnaf said:
if you're ignoring your girl you're just teaching her to live without you
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yep. one of the saddest things i heard was from someone very close to me. she said.. "i can't wait around for my husband to make me happy" she said it will never happen.
 
vio said:
yep. one of the saddest things i heard was from someone very close to me. she said.. "i can't wait around for my husband to make me happy" she said it will never happen.
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She should be happy without needing someone else to make her that way. A spouse or any sig other should increase ones happiness but not be the sole reason for it.
 
vio said:
yep. one of the saddest things i heard was from someone very close to me. she said.. "i can't wait around for my husband to make me happy" she said it will never happen.
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Sad?!

It's a fuckinh GOOD thing. It's not her husbands job to make her happy. It's HER job, And it's good she recognized it and realizes she has the power.
 
you say that now. but studies prove that if a husband/wife dies, most edit:spouses only live 7 years after them.

my husband is my world. i'm pathetic.
 
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vio said:
you say that now. but studies prove that if a husband/wife dies, most edit:spouses only live 7 years after them.

my husband is my world. i'm pathetic.
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that has to do with age and life expetancy not love.


at what age did you get married
 
mikev said:
She should be happy without needing someone else to make her that way. A spouse or any sig other should increase ones happiness but not be the sole reason for it.
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You shouldn't depend on someone, for everything, but your spouse is major source of your happiness. And don't worry, she goes around not a giving a fuck. Has done it for years.
 
kevin 714 said:
that has to do with age and life expetancy not love.


at what age did you get married
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look into it. as to why people die so quickly after their spouse.
i had my civil ceremony in july last year. 33yrs old. however we are on 5 years total.
 
Silence said:
Guys with small penis syndrome.
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riiight.

i'm out. obviously people love attacking me from all points and finding fault. i have no back up and have put up my fight.



good luck dar.

if your husband tells you to not write him long e-mails, then start writing long e-mails to some other guy. i'm willing to wager a large sum that he'll turn around and ask why you are writing long e-mails to some other person.
 
vio said:
Obviously you don't want that much attention and love. And that's okey. That's you. Some don't feel that way.
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I could never respect or have strong emptional feelings a woman whos happiness was near solely dependent on me.

That she could live a happy life without me, on her own, as a strong independent woman, is an admirable trait.

What youre describing is unhealthy dependency and lack of strong personal identity
 
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