cyberena
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infrandom said:Cyberena, you make some good points but I must disagree about your persception of BARF.
First off your right, to post you life in the open like that takes cajones, and if you read that thread I don't think anyone disagreed with that statement, in fact I think most people said they don't have the courage to put their life out online like that.
However, what you dont know is BARF is very much about family.
My suggestion, show up the family's meet, introduce yourself, I bet someone will end up buying you a drink.
hey, i believe BARF is normally a nice place. just think something about my site or pics people dont like? or one guy said jealous? so its either just dont like me, or jealous. i cant help either if peoples natural reaction is that. i didnt say anything to deserve such reactions, but cant help it if people just dont like my words or face! (dont care tho, all good) i dont get this kind of reaction from other boards, was surpised at barf. but dont mind it.
i do mind some of the "too cold" insults towards my friends tho, im sure you guys are nice in person, as you DO have the guts to say these things when hidden behind screen. its easy... shiiiiieet.
of course in person you'll be nice... =P as i think calling someone ugly can be one of the worst things you can say about a person, as it is who they are and hard to change. you can cause serious depression to people with those careless words. hanging out with a 'family' thats cool with people doing that is kinda uncool, but i am hoping it is only the FEW that did say non-humorous things that are like that.
jus cuz barf meets dont make it more special. esp if its filled with people who supports cold heartedness, that isnt cool in my opinion. i dont hang out with friends who say the things i found on barf to be honest... i dont have a single friend like this, saying one of my friends is ugly, thats plain out wrrrroooooonnnggg. =)
and whoever said that, i dont believe your happy in life. insults come from people unhappy the most. ever see happy loving people say such things? i see angry walkers on SF scream such things tho.
hey, keeping it real, im a honest guy remember? and you guys like honesty.
but i know there are always reasons for it (coldness), and i dont believe half the things on here anyways. never the less, even tho its been a pretty funny start! ill still love to hang out and see peoples faces and hopes to meet some cool friends at the social! even if most dont like me! hah, hopefully someone be nice to me, as i love meeting new friends...
cheers

