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Pushrod said:
I don't know how I am. I am not uncomfortable, so that's something. Thank you for the thought.
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That is a very good response. Did the step kids share Thanksgiving or did you opt out? I was hoping to get to Florida and visit my friend Karla who built a cool little beach hut.
 
ThumperX said:
Who knows what about electric bicycles. I am so tired of taking my truck or van to the grocery store anyone have insight on these things.
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There are lightish ones (under 35 pounds) and heavy ones that go faster and further and then there are utilitarian ones that are like pickup trucks.

The latter are on the fugly side but are certainly the most practical.

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ThumperX said:
Who knows what about electric bicycles. I am so tired of taking my truck or van to the grocery store anyone have insight on these things.
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oooh, fun! are you going to get a pedal assist or a grip it and rip it kind?
 
Women have a really good way of fucking you over. I don't understand how you can say "I always thought we'd end up together." and then a couple weeks later tell me "My heart belongs to someone else." So let's just throw away 2 decades of friendship.

This is some emotional manipulative bullshit. There was a lot I could say but I didn't and just said "Okay". There was a lot I could say but I didn't. I don't like talking in anger because even though this lady is someone I will probably never talk to again, saying things you can't back isn't good, whether it's deserved or not. I do my best to not do that ever.

But what I'm doing is reminding myself of all the girls I've dated, or maybe just friends with benefits, when it was over, there were no bad feelings. One of my exes still sends me funny videos of raccoons on instagram and we have random conversations because I do care about her and she does care about me.

Things will be better in the future, I know that. There is a lady out there that will like want and appreciate everything about me. Maybe not everything. No one's perfect and I'm kind of a weird motherfucker.
 
Kurosaki said:
Women have a really good way of fucking you over. I don't understand how you can say "I always thought we'd end up together." and then a couple weeks later tell me "My heart belongs to someone else." So let's just throw away 2 decades of friendship.
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She did you a favor judging from that.

There is a very nice person out there looking for you; may you find her in the end.
 
Kurosaki said:
Women have a really good way of fucking you over. I don't understand how you can say "I always thought we'd end up together." and then a couple weeks later tell me "My heart belongs to someone else." So let's just throw away 2 decades of friendship.

This is some emotional manipulative bullshit. There was a lot I could say but I didn't and just said "Okay". There was a lot I could say but I didn't. I don't like talking in anger because even though this lady is someone I will probably never talk to again, saying things you can't back isn't good, whether it's deserved or not. I do my best to not do that ever.

But what I'm doing is reminding myself of all the girls I've dated, or maybe just friends with benefits, when it was over, there were no bad feelings. One of my exes still sends me funny videos of raccoons on instagram and we have random conversations because I do care about her and she does care about me.

Things will be better in the future, I know that. There is a lady out there that will like want and appreciate everything about me. Maybe not everything. No one's perfect and I'm kind of a weird motherfucker.
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wtf, lady. what a weird way to lead you on just to be like, “yeah, nah.” smh
 
GAJ said:
She did you a favor judging from that.

There is a very nice person out there looking for you; may you find her in the end.
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You're probably right.

I wanted to use the "hopeless romantic" but I don't think that's accurate.

I'm okay with walking into any relationship with high hopes but knowing if it doesn't work out, I can take it. This one was a bit different but I'll get over it.

I doubt any woman will be able to hurt me more than the only time I dated two women at the same time. (I've told this 'joke') before. They were the same person, or at least inhabited the same body... Multiple personalities was a difficult thing to deal with, mostly because most of the time I was not sure who I was talking to.
 
GAJ said:
She did you a favor judging from that.

There is a very nice person out there looking for you; may you find her in the end.
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Here's the thing I don't understand. She agreed to go out on a date with me in San Diego to scratch an itch we both had for years. I made the reservation at the restaurant. I got sick on the day of and had to cancel.

But regardless, was this guy already in her life? Probably. I'm not stupid.

Platonic or romantic, I don't do well with people doing me wrong. Or at least because people are fallible, we make mistakes but apologies always help to fix what's broken.

In this case, I don't expect an apology and I don't want it.
 
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Kurosaki said:
Here's the thing I don't understand. She agreed to go out on a date with me in San Diego to scratch an itch we both had for years. I made the reservation at the restaurant. I got sick on the day of and had to cancel.

But regardless, was this guy already in her life? Probably. I'm not stupid.

Platonic or romantic, I don't do well with people doing me wrong. Or at least because people are fallible, we make mistakes but apologies always help to fix what's broken.

In this case, I don't expect an apology and I don't want it.
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yeah this all sounds nefarious. i don’t like it. :x
 
Sorry you had to go through that Kuro. You'll be a catch for the right girl!
 
two wheel tramp said:
yeah this all sounds nefarious. i don’t like it. :x
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I don't think nefarious is the proper word here. Nefarious implies intentional behavior to hurt someone.

I don't thinks that's what happened here. Maybe oblivious or a word that would describe how someone acts without knowing what they do will hurt someone close to them.
 
Abacinator said:
Sorry you had to go through that Kuro. You'll be a catch for the right girl!
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I have no doubt about that.

Who knows when but I'm patient and I'm fine being single. I've never gotten into any relationship because the need to not be single.

Also the unfortunate truth is the "right girl" got away from me. She loved me harder than any girl has in my life. Her sister got in the way. I don't think there was anything I could have changed.
 
Or Kuro, she may have been closing an open ended thing before making a commitment. Getting the “what if” answered preemptively?

:dunno
 
ThumperX said:
I am so tired of taking my truck or van to the grocery store anyone have insight on these things.
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dunno what exactly that means but my > 60 friend in SamtamRosm has a $1000-$1500 "L'Ectric" cargoi-sh bike with a milk crate on the back and claims to ride it every day to the store. In fact with him+other people I rode to forestville and back (me not on an electric)

huh. looks like the can be even lower, depending on the model . https://www.amazon.com/LECTRIC-Electric-Adult-Folding-Bikes/dp/B0DGBMC9YT/
 
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