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RIP member Lylith (miri)

That is sad.

She was always sweet to Heather and me and mum always asked about her. We exchanged emails/texts not too long ago. I considered her a as a friend.

Rest in peace, friend.
 
Very sad.

RIP Lylith and condolences to family and friends.
 
Man that's heavy. Fibromyalga will fuck you up. It's not uncommon for people to call it quits after a long battle. I'm happy she's found the peace she was looking for.
 
Miri's Final Post said:
I’ve been a disappointment to so many, for so long.

I won’t be disappointing anyone any longer.

I’ve never wanted to, or meant to cause people pain, but that’s all I seem to do.

I never believe I can do anything.

I never believe I can accomplish anything.

I truly believe I’m stupid and worthless.

Lies, lies, lies! She was always very sweet, never disappointed me, never caused me any pain, always accepted me. There was nothing stupid and worthless in her.
 
She was a really good person. Very selfless.

So sad. I hope her suffering is over.
 
I wish she'd found the help she needed.

Bye Miri, you were always cool. :rose
 
Rip. I met her once, seemed like a nice girl. This seems to be the case with most people, met her once, seemed nice.
 
I'm so sorry. She was at my house for a dinner/bar b q before. She was always such a wonderful/kind person.

RIP!!
 
Lies, lies, lies!

Miri saw herself very differently than her friends saw her. It's one of the hallmarks of chronic depression; her perceptions were betrayed by body chemistry. It would be nice to think she's fully aware of the truth of how her friends saw her, now that she is unfettered by her earthly form.

I wish she'd found the help she needed.

I do too, but wonder if her condition was more powerful than available remedies. She was dealt a bad hand.

I'll miss her.
 
I edited my post to include her sort of final message. I'm not sure how I feel about posting it, conflicted I suppose as its really heavy, but there it is

Reading her last post was brutal. But I think you did the right thing. My father, uncle, cousin (female), best friend and his brother all took their own life. And it seems that some of the people they left here had the "why and if they would have just said something" mentality going on, when the fact is that there is a reason and there wasn't anything they could do about it. Sometimes life is just too much to endure, especially when every day you're eating a shit sandwich. The consistency and flavor of the sandwich varies each day, but you're still eating shit. This Miri person laid it out and was done dealing with the personal anguish of her existence. Nothing wrong with that.

RIP
 
:rose Miri

We rode 2up once, had some great conversations, I enjoyed her presence.

Her lot in life was not an easy one, I'm thankful that she fought as long as she did, and understand how she could be in need of rest.
 
I'll always remember giving her a lift on the back of the Sprint and her little tiger backpack. She was a pretty cool lady. I hope she found the peace she was seeking. :rose

:rip
 
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