NorCalAthlete
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Who said it was the Asian part I didn't like?
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girlfriends riding with another guy?
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alien
American Asian or Asian Asian?
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New coworker joined my team and got a desk near mine. I have a helmet hanger off the side of my desk and rode in on like her 2nd day sitting near me and she instantly asked for me to take her for a ride, if had an extra helmet, etc. I was like uhhhhh maybe...?
Definitely not my type. So probably not gonna happen. But with the general perception of a motorcycle ride being more than just a friendly kinda thing (GENERAL perception, not 100%) I don't think I want to do it.
Put it this way - asked if she rode / had any experience on bikes and she goes "Me? Oh god no come on man I'm an Asian woman I'll die if you let me ride on my own. My dad let me ride his scooter and I crashed it within a block, totaled it."
I think you need to post pictures so we can properly assess the tactical situation...
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That was the only feature you mentioned
He didn’t like the inexperienced part. Not the Asian part. Lol
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Nah, we just pose next to them to get "likes"
Huh, so you are saying Girls are Ducati people?
New coworker joined my team and got a desk near mine. I have a helmet hanger off the side of my desk and rode in on like her 2nd day sitting near me and she instantly asked for me to take her for a ride, if had an extra helmet, etc. I was like uhhhhh maybe...?
Definitely not my type. So probably not gonna happen. But with the general perception of a motorcycle ride being more than just a friendly kinda thing (GENERAL perception, not 100%) I don't think I want to do it.
Put it this way - asked if she rode / had any experience on bikes and she goes "Me? Oh god no come on man I'm an Asian woman I'll die if you let me ride on my own. My dad let me ride his scooter and I crashed it within a block, totaled it."
Don't be racist, it is pronounced "Rike."
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Sane_Man
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I was like uhhhhh maybe...?
Definitely not my type. So probably not gonna happen. But with the general perception of a motorcycle ride being more than just a friendly kinda thing (GENERAL perception, not 100%) I don't think I want to do it.
Put it this way - asked if she rode / had any experience on bikes and she goes "Me? Oh god no come on man I'm an Asian woman I'll die if you let me ride on my own. My dad let me ride his scooter and I crashed it within a block, totaled it."
You had to had given up a couple eye teeth to get so lucky.
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JesasaurusRex
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might need to be a sticky
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NorCalAthlete
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Have at it.
Nah, we just pose next to them to get "likes"
how's your foot????
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Nope, younger than me.
Mike95060
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Pete you silver fox chasing hound dog you!
Update: sorry it took so long in case anyone was wondering
we have arrived at another level in our relationship.
She didn’t realize how sacred this act was and apologized. She polled her NA peeps and they basically told her she’s out of her mind to accept an invite from another dude while in a relationship, wasn’t just me being insecure. It’s really a relationship thing when it comes to couples and motorcycles, at least the NA crowd (mostly Harley people) seems to adopt a firmer stance on this unspoken norm. It’s a straight up no-no. Most people would agree with some very exceptional exceptions.
Since then we’ve been engaged in our relationship and having a great time together now that the air is cleared up.
As for the other dude, she told him no and that she is solid with me.
As a result, a married couple friends of ours are heading to MSP and have invited her to get her license with them in a few weeks. She is excited and has been riding pillion lately to get more of a feel for riding. Maybe I was misreading her enthusiasm.
Feeling solid with this woman.
we have arrived at another level in our relationship.
She didn’t realize how sacred this act was and apologized. She polled her NA peeps and they basically told her she’s out of her mind to accept an invite from another dude while in a relationship, wasn’t just me being insecure. It’s really a relationship thing when it comes to couples and motorcycles, at least the NA crowd (mostly Harley people) seems to adopt a firmer stance on this unspoken norm. It’s a straight up no-no. Most people would agree with some very exceptional exceptions.
Since then we’ve been engaged in our relationship and having a great time together now that the air is cleared up.
As for the other dude, she told him no and that she is solid with me.
As a result, a married couple friends of ours are heading to MSP and have invited her to get her license with them in a few weeks. She is excited and has been riding pillion lately to get more of a feel for riding. Maybe I was misreading her enthusiasm.
Feeling solid with this woman.
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mrzuzzo
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wow, that was unexpected. Good work.