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Online Dating, whats your experience?
- Thread starter Dubbington
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Momo-san
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Oh geeze, I just picked up a barf stalker 
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Oh geeze, I just picked up a barf stalker
Cootz and B
I did a Match.com date once.. years ago. It was ALL bad ! I really had no idea how to handle the on-line or the transition from on-line to meat space.
two wheel tramp
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I call shenanigans PG. Female consensus among us barfettes seems to be that you're the bees knees.
arty
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Hugh Jasole
Had a PoF date this week and it was a trip. Got along great in txt and on the phone, both attracted to one another, yet no spark what so ever in person. On paper we were a hit, in actual meat space not so much. Humans are complicated, even more so the older we get.
Moike
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Oh yeah, forgot... here's a photo.
Yes, the new girlfriend is in fact a Monican agent from Aeon Flux.
Yes, the new girlfriend is in fact a Monican agent from Aeon Flux.
msethhunter
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Honestly, online dating is one of those things that you do when your to shy, or to lazy to walk up and talk to that pretty girl you see in a resturant, or gas station, or (insert location here).
NUT UP AND TAKE THE REJECTION! You will get rejected by a few. So what.
NUT UP AND TAKE THE REJECTION! You will get rejected by a few. So what.
Morphine
Team Clueless, Captain
a lot of us work in an environment where it's hard to find a suitable match. Gas stations, restaurant, supermarket...? it could be a lot of awkward moments when she said she's married or have a boyfriend. And it's a crab-shot, you don't have the slightest idea what to expect. At least, online, you get two things: the people there are available and a synopsis of their lives.
rodr
Well-known member
Online dating casts a wider net. Even those who are attractive and socially adept may want to do that.
But sure, don't be shy in meatspace!
Dubbington
Slamdunk Champion
I do feel online dating eliminates or maybe prevents the butterflies one can get in person. Granted, the entire butterflies thing is shoved down out throat by holllywood anyway. I'd rather be able to weed out the ones I know I wont mix with than go on a few dates and find out they dont have a job or something.
Pluses and minuses to both. Online is convenient and widens the dating pool. It also seems to make girls more picky too. At least starting out. Funny seeing the same girl's profile change over a year.....not getting that 6'2 athletic and toned guy yet are ya, had to change it to 5'10
Morphine
Team Clueless, Captain
Pluses and minuses to both. Online is convenient and widens the dating pool. It also seems to make girls more picky too. At least starting out. Funny seeing the same girl's profile change over a year.....not getting that 6'2 athletic and toned guy yet are ya, had to change it to 5'10
One time I saw a girl who was 5'0".. I was like, hmm.. ok a little short but I can live with that...
tatata.. dadada...
Contact me if you:
"If you're not at least 5'10", don't bother. Anyone man under 5'10" is too short, IMHO."
You are 5'0"!!!
Morphine
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weasel
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I'm not at all shy but I don't go to bars anymore
I also don't hit on barfettes or chicks in AA or random girls at gas stations
Oh, talked to my new friend for an hour and a half on the phone last night. Still going for coffee next week.
Ant
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Aw, I'm excited for you Jim, even if you two HAVE exchanged more text messages than your average teenager.
Morphine, height doesn't matter when you're horizontal.
Morphine, height doesn't matter when you're horizontal.
TripleSeven
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Reli
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One time I saw a girl who was 5'0".. I was like, hmm.. ok a little short but I can live with that...
tatata.. dadada...
Contact me if you:
"If you're not at least 5'10", don't bother. Anyone man under 5'10" is too short, IMHO."
You are 5'0"!!!
Exactly
The media loves to portray men as being more superficial than women, but I feel the opposite is true. Women are much more rigid on their height and hair color preferences. If you ask a girl what hair color they prefer, probably 70-80% of them will say "dark hair", but if you ask a guy the same question, his answers will be a lot more random or he will just say IDGAF.
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Caddywumpus
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Your from San Ramen
See this:
http://bayarearidersforum.com/forums/showpost.php?p=7605024&postcount=11
Just J
Sea Urchin Farmer
Joined six months ago. Paid $34 for a single month, got "matched" in 2 days. First date lasted 6+ hours. Fast forward to today and I couldn't ask for more. It's been quite an experience.
I'd recommend it.
I'd recommend it.