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Online Dating, whats your experience?

Dude, are you saying it's not gonna work out because she doesn't have a car and lives in a ghetto-ish neighborhood? That's some weak-sauce reason. Unless...

She saw your third nipple and freaked out didn't she?

Dubs aint got no third nipple, nor no third ball. I dont even think he has a pair.
 
Dude, are you saying it's not gonna work out because she doesn't have a car and lives in a ghetto-ish neighborhood? That's some weak-sauce reason. Unless...

She saw your third nipple and freaked out didn't she?

Just makes dating tough early on since I'm in San Ramon. Always cruising out there and then leaving late cuz I have dogs and can't stay the night. Forgot to mention she's my age, 30, and 3 years from being done with school where as I've been out and may be looking into Phd programs. Not a huge issue but an example how we might be in different places, geographically and career wise.

2nd date with a girl tomorrow who is closer, lives solo in an Apt, done with school and wicked smart with a solid career. Oh and she's about 5'2 and maybe 115 :drool

I clicked with oakland girl but just predict the always driving out there, no parking, no spontaneous visits by her will get old fast.

I honestly feel online dating creates a 'grass is greener' mentality as it's too easy to click and look for something else.

Dubs aint got no third nipple, nor no third ball. I dont even think he has a pair.

I'll bring them to the Kitchen Sink dinner and show you, you can juggle right? :dunno
 
Dude, are you saying it's not gonna work out because she doesn't have a car and lives in a ghetto-ish neighborhood? That's some weak-sauce reason. Unless...

She saw your third nipple and freaked out didn't she?

I think it's more that he wasn't feeling this and the added PITA has the odds stacked against the girl.

Men. They can be just as fickle as us females.
 
I think it's more that he wasn't feeling this and the added PITA has the odds stacked against the girl.

Men. They can be just as fickle as us females.

Nahh Cootz, most of us know what we want and aren't afraid to kiss you by the fifth date.
 
Dude, Oakland to San Ramone is cake. When my wife and I were dating I used to drive from the Outer Richmond all the way to Hayward at 6PM just to hang out for the evening. :hand
 
Dude, Oakland to San Ramone is cake. When my wife and I were dating I used to drive from the Outer Richmond all the way to Hayward at 6PM just to hang out for the evening. :hand

That too.

I used to commute from Berkeley to San Jose.

In those days, I'd drive all the way to Davis or Sacto for quality poon.
 
Dude, Oakland to San Ramone is cake. When my wife and I were dating I used to drive from the Outer Richmond all the way to Hayward at 6PM just to hang out for the evening. :hand

But did you have dawgs? I have to be home at 9 to feed and give my dog her meds. It's easy to work around if the person lives 15 minutes away.

Going out with the girl I met tomorrow. :D

We both have kats the safe word is "have to go feed the cat" :laughing
 
That too.

I used to commute from Berkeley to San Jose.

In those days, I'd drive all the way to Davis or Sacto for quality poon.

You can't seriously compare. Gas was what .85 cents a gallon then :laughing

My problem is I am SUPER logical/realistic and with $5/gallon gas and risking my life getting to my car late at night, not sure I want to sign up for that.
 
Wouldn't you technically be feeding the cat during any shenanigans, Jim?

:later

You can't seriously compare. Gas was what .85 cents a gallon then :laughing

My problem is I am SUPER logical/realistic and with $5/gallon gas and risking my life getting to my car late at night, not sure I want to sign up for that.

Ermagerd, do you have sand in your cooter? :laughing
 
You can't seriously compare. Gas was what .85 cents a gallon then :laughing

My problem is I am SUPER logical/realistic and with $5/gallon gas and risking my life getting to my car late at night, not sure I want to sign up for that.

85 cents?

In Cali?

Not hardly.

:laughing

Besides, you somehow have money to buy a condo or two, safe, newer car, and you won't spend a few bucks on a woman?




Y'know how I know you're gay?

:rofl

Seriously dude, if Eliot Spitzer can shell out 5k a night, you can spring for $5/gal gas over $3/gal. It's San Ramon, even in my truck that's less than $5 additional round-trip.
 
You can't seriously compare. Gas was what .85 cents a gallon then :laughing

My problem is I am SUPER logical/realistic and with $5/gallon gas and risking my life getting to my car late at night, not sure I want to sign up for that.

Man up.

A chance at love is worth the price of admission.
 
:laughing

That is awesome.





^ Which is why this guy has an awesome girlfriend.

Thanks Cootz!

Me and her, before she broke her shoulder MXing

Id get up in the middle of the night to go see her. I stay up all night for her. I drove her mom an hour and a half then drove right back to see her in the hospital.

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i would pedal that far for quality poon.

I would've, too, but it'd be hard to make it back to work the next morning in time. Sometimes ya gotta drive.

:laughing

Man up.

A chance at love is worth the price of admission.

Also, if your place is in the hood, why'd you sell the condo, Dubby? If you're seriously risking your life to venture outside, move.
 
I would've, too, but it'd be hard to make it back to work the next morning in time. Sometimes ya gotta drive.

:laughing



Also, if your place is in the hood, why'd you sell the condo, Dubby? If you're seriously risking your life to venture outside, move.

Huh? :confused

I live in Danville, girl lives off Lakeshore Oakland. I bought nearly 3 years ago. Her place is in the hood, with no off street parking at all close by. She wont be staying at my place much at all since she doesnt have a car to get out here. I'm just being realistic in the beginning and trying not to let her tasty lady bits cloud my judgment :teeth
 
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