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Online Dating, whats your experience?

UMadBro said:
Joined six months ago. Paid $34 for a single month, got "matched" in 2 days. First date lasted 6+ hours. Fast forward to today and I couldn't ask for more. It's been quite an experience.

I'd recommend it.
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Encouraging :cool 1 day for me but we still need to see how it goes.
 
First, I want to say that the "success" stories are making me reconsider...may have to jump back in that online pool...

Second: Not to be pessimistic, but keep in mind the holidays are coming. It has been shown that people tend to get more "desperate" around the holidays. I am happy for all of you that have recently met someone or not so recent...Point 2 is more for us that are still single.
 
SirSkankin DBA said:
First, I want to say that the "success" stories are making me reconsider...may have to jump back in that online pool...

Second: Not to be pessimistic, but keep in mind the holidays are coming. It has been shown that people tend to get more "desperate" around the holidays. I am happy for all of you that have recently met someone or not so recent...Point 2 is more for us that are still single.
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That's why I only joined for a month. If I didn't find anything to hold on to, then I'd leave it as that.
 
So jelly of people who had something working out from online dating thing. So far has been pretty disappointing. Oh, well I guess more time for ballroom dancing. :laughing
 
Dubbington said:
Wow, this girl is not even that hot to have that much attitude :laughing
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I don't ever do online dating (as I do not suffer from some crippling personality disorder that prevents me from meeting people in real life) and I assume that most people on here are socially inept or "visually offensive"- I created my profile as a drunken experiment and am simply curious to see if anyone else did too!
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:rofl
 
I'm so glad I'm not a man. I would hack my own penis off in disgust after reading that.
 
sfcootz said:
Dubbington how do you know it was just created 45 minutes ago?
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On the non-smartphone site it has the main activity feed in the middle of the page and shows the most recent profile activity relating to your search criteria. In small italics it states in minutes the last time they edited or did something to it.
 
My 2nd date went well. The view from that one turn on Grizzly Peak was pretty amazing last night.

That being said, I dont think there's gonna be a 3rd date. Girl is super cute, great butt and boobs. I'm not a boob guy but I sure became one :laughing I didn't want to pull up in front of her place, make out and again and just drop her off SOOO we looked for a parking spot. Easily took 20 min to find a spot in Oakland at 11pm around lake merrit :wtf Felt like I was going to get mugged walking....ok I was sprinting....to my car at 1am when I was leaving that was 2 blocks away. I'm not sure I can hang with that and her not having her own car.

We had some fun. She seemed down to hook up but she likes me and is looking for a serious BF and I was already feeling it wasnt going to work out and didnt want to feel like a douche hooking up and then telling her it's not going to work out the a day or two later.
 
Dubbington said:
Wow, this girl is not even that hot to have that much attitude :laughing

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/MCGoodHair?cf=home_orbits
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It isn't me, I swear :x

And actually it is Friday night as I'm filling this out and I am home with a box of wine!

:rofl

I thought she was an alky when she said she couldn't do without her flask. Add to that "get my life back on track" and then talking about drinking and bars and whatnot and I'm like "there you go" ;)

But it isn't me :twofinger
 
I'm still online dating. It's kind of hit and miss but lately mostly miss.:rofl
 
Dubbington said:
I'm not a boob guy but I sure became one.
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My nizzle.

:fistbump

Dubbington said:
We had some fun. She seemed down to hook up but she likes me and is looking for a serious BF and I was already feeling it wasnt going to work out and didnt want to feel like a douche hooking up and then telling her it's not going to work out the a day or two later.
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That's thinking from the School of Volcamism. :laughing
 
Dude, are you saying it's not gonna work out because she doesn't have a car and lives in a ghetto-ish neighborhood? That's some weak-sauce reason. Unless...

She saw your third nipple and freaked out didn't she?
 
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