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Online Dating, whats your experience?

This thread is getting funnier and funnier as it progresses.

Dub, why not just get a sexy time friend?

Have a friend for that already. She lives close by, she was going to come over last night but I was on a date.

Dubs, I don't know you at all, but it sure seems to me that you are making up excuses here. Do you like her? Does she like you? Well fuck, if so, there you go. What else is there? I'd walk through Hunters Point at 2 in the morning, with a bag of money around my neck, to go on a date with Cootz or Connie (or even better, both). Her living situation is temporary anyway, especially if you guys really get along.

No excuses really. I do have some Seinfeld issues maybe...MAYBE :teeth Really though I'm just being realistic I think. Not looking to settle or make anything more difficult than it should early on.

Honestly though, if a person you met didnt have a car and you didn't live walking distance do Bart, dont you think that would be somewhat a hassle?

In related news....

After nearly 4 years I re-connected with my first and very awkward online date, miss "3 Dates No Kiss" :love Wow! If ever a girl just sends me its this one. She just has it all it seams. Well spoken, smart, a little cynical/witty/sarcastic. Her behavior, smile, dimple and confidence.... :drool Not a blonde hair blue eyed model knockout....better than that, reserved, olive colored skin, short hair just above the chin, great eyebrows.....damn! One drink and 3 hours of conversation last night, it was amazing! Great part is we are 30 and 29 and have 4 years of dating under our belt, lots of stories we shared, ex's we laughed about, horror story dates we rehashed too. Funny thing was in an email she mentioned having a friend she wanted to set me up with, I asked her about it towards the end of our night and she didn't really want to go into detail :thumbup We're are both actively online dating, her going on 3rd date with another dude and me a 2nd date with a girl, however, she wasn't too enthusiastic about the 3rd date. Never know right? We laughed A LOT about how awkward we were 4 years ago and now 1st dates are nothing.
 
Honestly though, if a person you met didnt have a car and you didn't live walking distance do Bart, dont you think that would be somewhat a hassle?

In related news....

After nearly 4 years I re-connected with my first and very awkward online date, miss "3 Dates No Kiss" :love Wow! If ever a girl just sends me its this one. She just has it all it seams. Well spoken, smart, a little cynical/witty/sarcastic. Her behavior, smile, dimple and confidence.... :drool Not a blonde hair blue eyed model knockout....better than that, reserved, olive colored skin, short hair just above the chin, great eyebrows.....damn! One drink and 3 hours of conversation last night, it was amazing! Great part is we are 30 and 29 and have 4 years of dating under our belt, lots of stories we shared, ex's we laughed about, horror story dates we rehashed too. Funny thing was in an email she mentioned having a friend she wanted to set me up with, I asked her about it towards the end of our night and she didn't really want to go into detail :thumbup We're are both actively online dating, her going on 3rd date with another dude and me a 2nd date with a girl, however, she wasn't too enthusiastic about the 3rd date. Never know right? We laughed A LOT about how awkward we were 4 years ago and now 1st dates are nothing.


It all depends. If thinks were looking good, her lack of a vehicle wouldn't make a bit of difference. I'm not looking for convenience to me, I'm looking for a good ole lady.

As far as 3 dates, no kiss, did it ever evolve past that? If not then, why now? Fantasy, in my experience, has always been better than the reality of a situation. It never works out like I thought it would.
 
Dubbs, for the love of all the is holy, kiss the woman. It's not rocket surgery
 
Dubbs, for the love of all the is holy, kiss the woman. It's not rocket surgery

We aren't even dating. She's feeling some other guy out and I'm doin the same. Depending how tomorrow night goes for me, I'm for sure going to see if she is free this weekend to do a dog park day. Hell, I may even ask her to the Kitchen Sink dinner coming up, I have a feeling she'd be down and I think she'd get a kick out of the whole thread started on her behalf.
 
Dubs, I don't know you at all, but it sure seems to me that you are making up excuses here. Do you like her? Does she like you? Well fuck, if so, there you go. What else is there? I'd walk through Hunters Point at 2 in the morning, with a bag of money around my neck, to go on a date with Cootz or Connie (or even better, both). Her living situation is temporary anyway, especially if you guys really get along.

Never has my leg been so well :leghump in all of my time on teh BARF. That was so good, I think I need a nap.


:laughing
 
We aren't even dating. She's feeling some other guy out and I'm doin the same. Depending how tomorrow night goes for me, I'm for sure going to see if she is free this weekend to do a dog park day. Hell, I may even ask her to the Kitchen Sink dinner coming up, I have a feeling she'd be down and I think she'd get a kick out of the whole thread started on her behalf.

this will end in tears :laughing
 
We aren't even dating. She's feeling some other guy out and I'm doin the same. Depending how tomorrow night goes for me, I'm for sure going to see if she is free this weekend to do a dog park day. Hell, I may even ask her to the Kitchen Sink dinner coming up, I have a feeling she'd be down and I think she'd get a kick out of the whole thread started on her behalf.

:rofl
 
^^^ I was going to ask for clarification on THAT particular point...but then thought....fuck it!
 
We aren't even dating. She's feeling some other guy out and I'm doin the same. Depending how tomorrow night goes for me, I'm for sure going to see if she is free this weekend to do a dog park day. Hell, I may even ask her to the Kitchen Sink dinner coming up, I have a feeling she'd be down and I think she'd get a kick out of the whole thread started on her behalf.

So?!? You still like her? You think she maybe possibly likes you? Kiss her and find out
 
Dubs you need a bike. Everyone on BARF knows that girls digs bikes and no one can get laid without one.
 
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