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The company I work for is closing down.

Ken, you're looking for machinist work? I can't recall....
 
I received an email this morning from the owner, my last day is this Friday. I bet she leaves her balls at home and doesn't come in this week to look me in the eye after 42 years....... If I am wrong about this I will state as much here. Hmm, I need to line up Medicare part G or Medigap - whatever - tomorrow. I should have the office emptied out tomorrow.

Monday will be strange, I bet I drive half way to work before I realize that I am no longer working.

I am going to visit another shop on Monday, whose owner wants to bring me on board. I don't know what he and two other shop owners think I can contribute, except picking my brain for customers etc.

That does seem messed up. I can say that working for a large corporation, these things are not consistent anyway. Some get parties and some you just find out one day they and their red stapler are gone. Not sure what's worse.

And someday, I'd hope to graduate from knob turner to brain leaker.
 
You know, as these days go by I am feeling more at peace with saying "fuckit" or "golly gee willikers", maybe retirement won't be so bad. It is just so strange to me to be forced out of my job. As I stated some time ago, the only time I have been fired was when I was 16, and I certainly deserved it. Cue Genesis, "There Must Be Some Misunderstanding". Naivete bit me in the derriere.
 
Asking for advice..... Obviously my 401k contributions will end this week. I moved the majority of the $ some years ago into a Vanguard MMF as a safety hedge, and am happy with its performance since, even though my returns would have been much greater if I had left it alone.

What to do with the remainder? We have other investments that have much larger balances than this. I am considering moving the majority of my 401k funds into a liquid IRA, and take the tax hit on about 1/3 of the balance to draw down over the next few years. I can take SS in December (66y 10 mo), which will provide a good amount of the dosh I will need.

I have a portfolio at Vanguard, and my wife has one at Fidelity, as well as a small one at Schwab along with Apple stock at Etrade. We don't touch any of those, at least we haven't up to this point. There are other bits and bobs in the mix; we own our condo as well as another that we rent to our son . We have no debt, just monthly living expenses.

Although I love them dearly, I have told my wife if we find good homes for our two cats we can go walkabout anywhere, any time that we want. I did float the idea of renting a motorhome and taking them along for the ride around the country. I figure after a few days they might acclimate and quit squawking.

If not I am sure there are a few rivers we would cross that we could chuck them in. I am totally teasing with that last comment....

Looming retirement feels weird, thank you all for putting up with my ramblings. Strange days indeed, most peculiar momma (John Lennon FWIW). Out.
 
I'm sure you have your trust all set and LTC plans in place.

There have been plenty of folks at my work who retire and come back in some sort of consulting capacity - usually the fellow types... One of the guys worked almost till he died - there was a death rattle emanating from his cube; one guy I worked with literally died in his cube, and there is a memorial for him outside that I get to see often, along with a couple other placards for folks I did not know (which feels a little weird to me, but it's not a public facility).

What I'm trying to say is that you may not necessarily need to retire but there will certainly be new adventures for you to explore.

I've thought about the cross-country RV thing but honestly do not feel the ROI is there for me.
 
We all have different internal chatter and I hope that yours keeps you comfortable feeling safe.
 
Trust and LTC plans were set up some years ago.
 
I'm sure you have your trust all set and LTC plans in place.

There have been plenty of folks at my work who retire and come back in some sort of consulting capacity - usually the fellow types... One of the guys worked almost till he died - there was a death rattle emanating from his cube; one guy I worked with literally died in his cube, and there is a memorial for him outside that I get to see often, along with a couple other placards for folks I did not know (which feels a little weird to me, but it's not a public facility).

What I'm trying to say is that you may not necessarily need to retire but there will certainly be new adventures for you to explore.

I've thought about the cross-country RV thing but honestly do not feel the ROI is there for me.
My wife would love for me to get an RV and travel all over which theoretically I could do as I WFH and all I need is Starlink and a laptop to do my job. sometimes I think screw it lets do it but I am comfortable in my home office and who would watch my animals. sigh so much for wandering.
 
Asking for advice..... Obviously my 401k contributions will end this week. I moved the majority of the $ some years ago into a Vanguard MMF as a safety hedge, and am happy with its performance since, even though my returns would have been much greater if I had left it alone.

What to do with the remainder? We have other investments that have much larger balances than this. I am considering moving the majority of my 401k funds into a liquid IRA, and take the tax hit on about 1/3 of the balance to draw down over the next few years. I can take SS in December (66y 10 mo), which will provide a good amount of the dosh I will need.

I have a portfolio at Vanguard, and my wife has one at Fidelity, as well as a small one at Schwab along with Apple stock at Etrade. We don't touch any of those, at least we haven't up to this point. There are other bits and bobs in the mix; we own our condo as well as another that we rent to our son . We have no debt, just monthly living expenses.

Although I love them dearly, I have told my wife if we find good homes for our two cats we can go walkabout anywhere, any time that we want. I did float the idea of renting a motorhome and taking them along for the ride around the country. I figure after a few days they might acclimate and quit squawking.

If not I am sure there are a few rivers we would cross that we could chuck them in. I am totally teasing with that last comment....

Looming retirement feels weird, thank you all for putting up with my ramblings. Strange days indeed, most peculiar momma (John Lennon FWIW). Out.
We are delaying SS until 70 and as combined it will be six figures we are drawing down our IRAs and paying the taxes on our lower income level now.

Waiting on SS yields you a guaranteed 8 percent return per year on SS.

Roth IRAs are tax free withdrawals after the 5 year waiting period and all growth in that time is tax free.

Bonus is it is much easier to deal with for inheritors with no 10 year requirement for them to draw down the balances in a Roth vs non Roth IRA.
 
Although I love them dearly, I have told my wife if we find good homes for our two cats we can go walkabout anywhere, any time that we want.
I’m of the mindset that adopted pets are a lifetime commitment. Please reconsider as such a transition would be really stressful for them and they cannot understand why “their” humans are suddenly gone.


ctwo: there was a death rattle emanating from his cube

dude....what?!?!? :oops:
 
On the cat note, when I drove my two from Colorado to Cali, they were adjusted on day two, one preferred to hide while moving, the other one, well, he kinda liked naps on the dashboard, or in my lap. Not technically safe, but, he was content.
 
I do not take lightly giving up our cats and do recognize the distress they would feel if we did put them in other homes. They are dearly loved. Ain't gonna happen, ergo lunches in Alviso, Milpitas, Oakland etc, will be the extent of our vacays. :rolleyes:
 
I have a good friend who has 3 cats and 2 dogs. They take them and their 3 kids traveling all the time in their RV. They are currently in Canada. The cats are adjusted just fine. They will adapt to almost anything, as long as you are the remaining constant in their lives.
 
I do not take lightly giving up our cats and do recognize the distress they would feel if we did put them in other homes. They are dearly loved. Ain't gonna happen, ergo lunches in Alviso, Milpitas, Oakland etc, will be the extent of our vacays. :rolleyes:
I wasn’t trying to give you a hard time. I used to volunteer at a shelter and seeing those poor animals that were surrendered was heartbreaking - and the reasons given were often infuriating. One of my favorites was FINALLY adopted...then surrendered AGAIN a week later. Gutted me.
 
I wasn’t trying to give you a hard time. I used to volunteer at a shelter and seeing those poor animals that were surrendered was heartbreaking - and the reasons given were often infuriating. One of my favorites was FINALLY adopted...then surrendered AGAIN a week later. Gutted me.
Hey, I wouldn't blame you if you were to give me a hard time. I love all living creatures (except certain politicians from many countries) and go out of my way to avoid running over or stepping on insects. My son adopted a cat that was a stray that I befriended, who was then taken in by a neighbour, A few days later she (cat) had a severe limp, and the neighbour couldn't find a veterinary appointment less than two weeks out. Meaning well, she took her to the animal shelter who confiscated the cat because she was a stray. The neighbor tried feebly to get her released to no avail. My son went to the animal shelter to adopt her, but was told she had a violent disposition. Really? Stuck in a cage in a fluorescent lit dungeon with other terrified animals?

He was successful ultimately thank goodness. She is such a gorgeous creature.

 
Anyway, back on topic. Today was my last day at work. I got myself worked up into a mild anxious state on Monday after I received my "You're fired!" email. It wasn't worded that way, but I got the drift.

I am usually very calm and can tend to be rather dispassionate, but 42 years of memories came tumbling into my stream of thought, and what of the future? I did the same thing again yesterday briefly but managed to kill the anxiety and stuff it in a cage in my brain, which I then locked.

I woke up this morning with no apprehension at all. I did my exit paperwork about 10:30 and got the fuck out of Dodge. Truthfully, I feel like a huge weight has been lifted from me; no more bullshit from the ridiculously incompetent owner and her (can it be possible) even less competent idiot daughter. Oh, I did leave with a "bonus", which amounted to less than 3 week's pay. Really? 42 years? Oh well, glass half-full and all that. I'll wait to see what my coworker (Rebecca, about whom I have often written) gets for a bonus before cashing that check. I hope to God that they take care of her, though I know they won't. Sorry ladies of BARF, but they are f"ing bitches.

The owner came to see me off yesterday with some truly kind words, and asked me to promise to stay in touch. Deep down inside the iceberg that she sometime is, there is something of a good person who is old, alone, and struggling with mixed emotions, knowing that she and her daughter caused the company to fail. She truly is alone; her husband passed a dozen or more years ago, she has an emotionally challenged 50-odd year old son who can't survive on his own, and a daughter who seems to care about nothing but herself and her adult offspring. Oh, and a huge payout with the closure and an undoubtedly larger one when mommy dies.

The end.....

Leads to a beginning. :afm199:thumbup
 
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