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What Are You Thinking Of Right Now?

Years ago, our dog at the time, got sprayed by a skunk in the middle of the night. I had a bad cold and completely plugged nose. I let him in and he ran and jumped in bed with my wife. :laughing
 
My Tuxedo cat went missing the day I went away for a week, a week ago. I'm drinking whiskey and listening to Dionne Warwick. What it's all about Alfie?
Man, that is a terrible feeling.

Hopefully the little booger turns up soon.
 
You know what got me thinking? That humans may never be able to leave the solar system...ever. That we are stuck here until the demise of humanity, whether through natural evolutionary processes or self-destruction. And that the only way we can observe planets outside our system is through deep space telescopes. MABYE create a probe that can get at least 0.5 the speed of light. And even then wait years to get data back.
 
While I love the look of stargazer lilies, I am wishing death and destruction to whomever abandoned a gigantic arrangement of them in the empty cubical next to me. Head is splitting open. Time to find bin 13
 
I’m thinking, today my sister turns 70.
 
I’m thinking, today my sister turns 70.
hope your relationship with her is better than mine (half sister). she visited a couple of weeks ago. she picked a fight she shouldn’t have (shit talking my father - a man she never met). it ended with my hands around her throat. never been so close to murder. my mother screaming STOP STOP STOP is the only reason she’s alive today, and i’m not in jail. thanks mom.
 
Me thinks you should never see her again.

My ex has now been abandoned by all of her sisters. Not only did she betray me, she showed up drunk to her sister’s son’s wedding where she continued to drink Jack Daniel’s from a Gatoraid bottle during the ceremony and throwing up during the ceremony in the porta potty, making it unusable for others. She continued to throw up in the porta potty and had to be ejected from the wedding for that and other commotions she made. She even came close to killing her daughter more than once due to her negligence. To say nothing of the loser men she was attracted to after me. She completely fucked her life up in so many other ways.

Sometimes you have to remove people from your life for your own peace and sanity. Even if they are close relatives.
 
some people are angry at the world and then their anger turns inward and then you get depression.
Depression=inward anger
I know that responding in this thread is frowned upon; however, this statement is so true, one I struggle with more than I should at this stage in life. I hold so much anger towards a mother who wasn't there for me as a child yet needs me desperately towards the end of her life. I have long ago forgiven her yet maybe I am kidding myself, because every mention of my childhood makes my blood boil.
My sisters on the other hand are my heroes. These two women rally and come up with energy that allows me to sleep. Are they perfect? No, but they are my sisters, and I would die defending them if it ever came to that.
 
Thinking when I retire in '27 I will jump on a bike and ride around the country for 3 months or maybe even more.
The Mrs already has been saying I don't want you around the house all the time so why not check how serious that is :laughing
 
Thinking when I retire in '27 I will jump on a bike and ride around the country for 3 months or maybe even more.
The Mrs already has been saying I don't want you around the house all the time so why not check how serious that is :laughing
"Bud's Long Way Around."

I thought of doing that when I retired back in the day.

The closest I got was driving a car from Santa Rosa to Miami as Covid began.

A great trip as it turned out.
 
Most difficult decisions in life are truly binary. While there may appear to be several options, the reality of clarity is there are only two...and those two are almost always completely diametric. Thanks Wednesday.
 
I'm thinking a friend who takes the wind out of your sails is not a friend at all. Don't feed me lies, but also: don't talk out both sides of your mouth, as that's bad behavior. Consider all trust lost and the friendship over.

In other news, throttle therapy does me good.
 
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