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What Are You Thinking Of Right Now?

I’m thinking that not everyone turns out as you figured they might.

Recently I asked a very old and good friend about a woman that I dated for a while before my first marriage. At the time she was a nice lady who drove a short bus for mentally handicapped kids. She ended up becoming over 300 lbs and also became a meth head.

One never knows.
 
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ThumperX said:
I know that responding in this thread is frowned upon; however, this statement is so true, one I struggle with more than I should at this stage in life. I hold so much anger towards a mother who wasn't there for me as a child yet needs me desperately towards the end of her life. I have long ago forgiven her yet maybe I am kidding myself, because every mention of my childhood makes my blood boil.
My sisters on the other hand are my heroes. These two women rally and come up with energy that allows me to sleep. Are they perfect? No, but they are my sisters, and I would die defending them if it ever came to that.
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same thought (wrt responding in this thread) - but can’t help it. i’m not one of those that internalizes anger. i express it immediately, and very physically. my dude put his foot down early in our relationship - ‘control it, or i’m out’. for the most part, i do, but occasionally i regress. my mom has been a selfish child her entire life, but getting aggressive with her is like beating up on a kitten, so i mostly just let her ramble on. one of my sisters (full sister) is a criminal (the FBI was after her for awhile - no clue the outcome - she disappeared over 20 years ago). in spite of what i said previously, my half sister and i are super close. we periodically fight like a couple of starving dogs going after the same bone (it starts with growling, and then fangs come out). we have a high ambient level of crazy, but nothing will ever permanently come between us as far as sisters go.
 
I’m thinking that one must be very careful associating with people who are toxic. They very well may drag you down with them. When I meet a toxic person, I immediately remove them from my life. No ifs, ands or buts.
 
I think getting mad is a reflex... but staying mad is a choice.
 
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😬I would like it to have facial recognition and voice activated and moonwalk
 
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ST Guy said:
I’m thinking that one must be very careful associating with people who are toxic. They very well may drag you down with them. When I meet a toxic person, I immediately remove them from my life. No ifs, ands or buts.
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I did this and I have no friends now :ROFLMAO:
 
Well, I think you are better off now. A toxic “friend” isn’t a friend. They are an impediment to you in your life.
 
I’m thinking busy day has been busy. Bought an excavator and wrangled a Unicorn I’m to the van. Winning!
 
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