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2nd Time... Dating IS FUN!

Women always have someone on the side. If you aren't getting 100% attention from her. You're sharing it with someone else you aren't aware of. They are sneaky.
 
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and if my wife and I ever split, I don't think I would attempt to purposefully date.

The stories I hear are :wtf :wow :dubbs

I'm starting to think I was born in the wrong era. Girl my age 25-33 dont care if a guy can build things, fix things, close to family, has a place to himself.

They just want to go out and live this fast paced lifestyle that revolves around eating, drinking and traveling.

Girl I'm dating told me she can't figure out what she can do for me cuz I can cook and take care of myself. Was an interesting realization.

She also mentioned that girls now (her too) have no problem using Tinder and other online forms to find men and get theirs (sexy time). Dont think if you're out there increasing your numbers they arent too.
 
Girl I'm dating told me she can't figure out what she can do for me cuz I can cook and take care of myself. Was an interesting realization.

Omg. There is only one thing to say at that moment...

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Girl I'm dating told me she can't figure out what she can do for me cuz I can cook and take care of myself. Was an interesting realization.

Omg. There is only one thing to say at that moment...

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:laughing

I actually think the statement shows a lack of understanding/maturity surrounding what a relationship is.

I'm starting to think I was born in the wrong era. Girl my age 25-33 dont care if a guy can build things, fix things, close to family, has a place to himself.

not sure why she should care about these things. If you're a douche (and not saying you are) then you're now just a douche with things that can do things :laughing
 
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Just the hawt ones. :laughing

No, dude, that is not what I have seen. The horrors of the relationship drama I have had to manage between clients since I have been managing housing in the TL is beyond words.
 
Bruh this is SF. Where even 6's have side pieces.

more like 4's. a chick at my work showed me her inbox on one of these dating sites. she had like 300 messages within the last week. i wouldnt touch this girl with a 10 foot pole. as long as it has a pulse dudes will go after it these days.
 
Just remember who that opinion is coming from.:laughing

Yeah, the thing is there are loyal chicks, who are the good ones, and sleazy chicks who are the bad ones. Just like dudes. Now, the older you get, the more often the good ones that aren't somehow fux0r3d otherwise with a case of the fuglies or the batshits are married off where you can't hassle 'em, because they are the good ones. This goes for both genders. Once you start hitting your mid-30's/Early 40's, pretty much everyone left in the game is some kind of mess and your best bet to find a real keeper is a second chancer who didn't get too messed up when they hitched to the wrong wagon the first time around, which is rare.

:dunno
 
more like 4's. a chick at my work showed me her inbox on one of these dating sites. she had like 300 messages within the last week. i wouldnt touch this girl with a 10 foot pole. as long as it has a pulse dudes will go after it these days.
So true. Women on dating sites are so overwhelmed with guys sending messages. Sometimes I wonder how I even get a response. :wow
I might get 1 response for 10 messages sent. I might get 1 date for every 6th response.
I've had lots of single dates. (see Eldritch's response below. ) :laughing

Yeah, the thing is there are loyal chicks, who are the good ones, and sleazy chicks who are the bad ones. Just like dudes. Now, the older you get, the more often the good ones that aren't somehow fux0r3d otherwise with a case of the fuglies or the batshits are married off where you can't hassle 'em, because they are the good ones. This goes for both genders. Once you start hitting your mid-30's/Early 40's, pretty much everyone left in the game is some kind of mess and your best bet to find a real keeper is a second chancer who didn't get too messed up when they hitched to the wrong wagon the first time around, which is rare.

:dunno
A lot of truth there for a guy who is so insensitive! :teeth
 
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