Eldritch
is insensitive
No dude. Not at all. He's a sweet kid who as far as I can tell from watching him grow up is just interested in being a kid. His parents have taken a ton of shit from mid west grandparents who think he's being "fagged up" and raised wrong. I'm pretty impressed with his football playing dad for just loving him how he is. So let me know how we are supposed to butt in correctly to label, shame or "correct" his behavior.
I think the best thing to do is go full California on their ass and only refer to anyone as Dude.