Okay, I've read all the way through this thread, some of the thread that Connie started on the Z forum, and I've read divz's posts.
First things first. To all my fellow BARF'ers, and a few in particular, thank you very much for the way you've all rallied here. Once again, BARF delivers.
Divz, I've read your apology/explanation/rationalization, and while it's nice that you've posted up, my feeling is that there's something missing.
I don't know what preceded my contact with you and that Miata, but I did see what happened in that corner. He didn't brake check you. He saw me - since we were in the same lane - got scared, and checked up. I saw the look on his face. He didn't hit the brakes all that hard. You must have already been closing pretty fast. Your explanation does not ring entirely true.
It's difficult to believe that our close call had much impact on you. Once I finally got turned around and caught up to you, you were in the midst of a big old doughnut at the turn off to Moraga. It seems like odd behavior for someone who might be concerned or rattled at the prospect of having nearly killed another person as the result of his own dangerous driving.
When I caught up to you again heading back south on Pinehurst, you were driving slowly, but appeared to ignore my best attempts to get your attention while at the same time talking on the cellphone. I followed you the length of Pinehurst twice. If you wanted to man up, this was the time to do it. It's difficult to believe that you did not know I was following you. What were you thinking?
The information that has shown up in this thread as a result of the good works of BARF detectives suggests that behavior I encountered is the norm, not the exception. This could suggest a couple of things, none of them complimentary to you. Either you are too immature to imagine the impact your choices can have on the lives of others, or you don't really care. With those inferences in mind, and Andy's questions to you in mind as well, tell us how you are going to change. Tell us what is motivating those changes. Tell us how we'll know. If you want to impress us, here's your chance.
Forgiveness is a wonderful thing. I have no intention of investing my life in hating you. Fortunately for me, I've got that choice, no thanks to you. I'm upright and breathing, not in the ground. I have the use of all my limbs and without pain or titanium hardware, unlike Dave. From me, forgiveness is cheap, but I still want to see you off the road.
Forgetting is another thing. Why would I forget? If you want me to forget, provide some new memories of Divz and his "crew" that would replace the ones I have now. Posting in a web forum is a start, but not exactly sufficient.
I can tell you one thing, the past three days I rode hundreds of miles of twisties, and my memory of you was present on
every blind turn.