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Dating is Expensive, Holy Hell!

I live 5 mins away from my parents and call my mother every day after work

I moved in with my brother help support him and his kids went he went through a bad divorce.

Why you'd being a girl you hardly know into your family sphere that fast and that in depth is beyond me. It's has nothing to do with being
A "strong girl" whatever that means lol


2 months in, you have no idea who this women is and she's like half your fiancé Alresdy lol

Aw damn. :wow

p0wnt. :laughing
 
It's so hard to take Kevin seriously when reading (or attempting to read, anyway) his posts. :laughing
 
I live 5 mins away from my parents and call my mother every day after work

I moved in with my brother help support him and his kids went he went through a bad divorce.

Why you'd being a girl you hardly know into your family sphere that fast and that in depth is beyond me. It's has nothing to do with being
A "strong girl" whatever that means lol


2 months in, you have no idea who this women is and she's like half your fiancé Alresdy lol

Seen her man Alresdy spend less on his own interests for her


Despite prevailing wisdom, that is vastly incorrect. Girls don't like that, they like driven guys who have passions and deep seated commitments to those passions.

Giving up on those cause he thinks he needs to pay for everything is sure fire way to lose respect

Well Kev wins the poor assumption award of the day. My hobbies or interests haven't sacrificed. I can see affording them and dating being a juggle.

If you knew me and my family you'd know meeting them isn't a big deal. Not like we wear matching yellow sweaters on Sunday's. They're loud and welcoming. The girl I'm dating needs to mesh well with them. It was her idea to come over for dinner actually.
 
Neither. I passed the 'don't be an asshole thread and ask her 600lb friend to chip in more'.

You did right, an extra $45 is the tax for being a grown-up.

As far as the rest of it, there's no timeline. My parents will hit 50 years in September, and their first date was Thanksgiving at my mom's house, they eloped 5 months later. If you start feeling like she's invading your life, pay attention to that feeling, you'll be having arguments within a year about how you spend your time. If not, good luck. And don't ask for or take advice from assholes on the internet, wtf do we know about your situation.
 
not sure if this has been posted as theres no goddamned way i'm reading this thread, but counting how long you've been dating someone in weeks is fucking weird as shit.
 
not sure if this has been posted as theres no goddamned way i'm reading this thread, but counting how long you've been dating someone in weeks is fucking weird as shit.

+1

Your relationship is not an infant :laughing
 
not sure if this has been posted as theres no goddamned way i'm reading this thread, but counting how long you've been dating someone in weeks is fucking weird as shit.

Same as when people celebrate "anniversaries"...when they haven't even been together for a year. :|

+1

Your relationship is not an infant :laughing

It's also really annoying when people list their children's age in months after they've already turned one.
 
Same as when people celebrate "anniversaries"...when they haven't even been together for a year. :|



It's also really annoying when people list their children's age in months after they've already turned one.

It's annoying when people mention their children

Dubbs, fool me once shame on you...you know the rest.
 
It's annoying when people mention their children

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Hookers cost as much as sushi and the satisfaction lasts just as long; from what I've heard.

Bad sushi/bad hooker = same cost at the Dr. or morgue.

My daughter is 104 months! :laughing


I do the math before I visit - 'Mom, I'm 386months old now.' So she can still brag about her children and grandchildren.'
 
$85 for a meal for 2 people on a date. That's not expensive, you are just being cheap.

Wait until you're married.
 
What have we learned here? Opinions are like assholes, everybody has one. Be yourself, if it fits, it fits. Mochers are a drag. 50' supply line? You must have a big lot. Did you use soft roll unbroken copper tubing? That's the kinda shit men should concern themselves with.
 
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