Yoda, is that you?
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Dating is Expensive, Holy Hell!
- Thread starter Dubbington
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Yoda, is that you?
Hooli
Bonafide
He might mind trick the server and just leave a tip: "The check is not, paid it has been"
Ironbutt
Loves the anecdotal
Hah.. Screw that. I've put my feet on the table, hands behind my head and said.. "WAITER.. separate checks please."
Greedy serial dating bitch's, eat your heart out, tabs on you. hahahahahaha.
Greedy serial dating bitch's, eat your heart out, tabs on you. hahahahahaha.
Reli
Well-known member
Not sure how this is relevant to dating. You could just as well be married or single and allow the same thing to happen to you.
V4
MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE
' sushi with friends leads to the Darkside..."
I'm starting to wonder how common this is, for women to just use dudes for free fancy meals and such. All I know is.. if I'm not getting anything .. yes that includes sex.. after about 5 dates I'll call it quits. That's if I'm feeling nice. 3 dates is usually my limit before I say "Whelp.. we are friends.. and I got too many of those."
It's a Dubbs thread?
Lester Green
DROOPY FOR MOD
Dubbs should introduce his girl to his Barf family...and then she can see what a joke everyone thinks he is...lol
wazzuFreddo
WuTang is 4 the children
I think Dubb's online persona has an element of performance art to it 
mean dad
verum super omnia
:aloeforthatburn
Kev wins the award?? You straight called him out for not caring about his family, and HE makes assumptions???
Also, being alpha has dick to do with digging a trench.
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very. it's a buyers market, and there a shitton of dicks for sale.
:aloeforthatburn
Kev wins the award?? You straight called him out for not caring about his family, and HE makes assumptions???
Also, being alpha has dick to do with digging a trench.
Doesn't the alpha make someone else dig the trench?
I think Dubb's online persona has an element of performance art to it
Kev wins the award?? You straight called him out for not caring about his family, and HE makes assumptions???
Shit, I barely talk to anyone in my family other my father. I guess I'm a complete narcissistic asshole.
Also, being alpha has dick to do with digging a trench.
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not_Dubs said:
Cut out all the unrelated bullshit from your story and you will find that you get a different response.
Reading your original post and others that you have made I am of the opinion you are "cheap". What I mean is you have no idea how to spend money. Who cares how much the sushi cost you? Did you have the cash in your pocket to cover the bill? Did you have a good time with your lady? Then it was a good night... but you can't focus on the conversation, the mood of your woman and a general good time with friends. No you focus on the investment into the relation ship (10 weeks), how much you expected to budget for dinner ($45) who ordered what (sake and 6 rolls vs. 3 and 3) and who paid how much. The problem in the dinner scenario you describe is you.
I am not sure why $85 is so important to you, but you figuring out why money is such a driving factor in your life and work to either relax on the issue or earn more money may go towards you being more at ease in life.
It's better to get the men to work for you than do the work of ten men