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girlfriends riding with another guy?

In before she get's dick'd down by the other guy...

O wait, it's too late. :later
 
Bay Arean said:
I would absolutely feel like a doormat. Sorry man. No bueno. She ain't your girlfriend by my square standards. He wouldn't have called, she wouldn't have answered. This just ain't right. Like Jed says, go ahead and let her go. Change the locks while she's out.
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THIS!

He is a douch for inviting her.
She should have said no anyway.
 
JakesKTM said:
I think hes a douche if hes in a relationship and is taking my girlfriend out, but this mutual attraction goes back to when they were both addicts. They are both long term recovery and they share that lifestyle. Anyway she knows im hurt and I told her do what she wants/needs.


I also told her its really not possible to have closure with him until she processes what she needs to - and then by that time its probly too late. Im not stickin around you know? If I really rocked her world she wouldnt even be a considering him.
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Looks like co-dependant. There is never any closure when this happens.

The absolute best case scenario is that you are going to have this douchbag as part of your life and your girlfriend will be at his beck and call. Been there done that :thumbdown

No, NO and HELL NO!
 
Flip it around:
Ask her if it is OK for you to go on a date another woman.

If she balks, then tell her, that is how you feel.

If she thinks it is OK, then she is not YOUR GF! You are in a one way relationship.

Tell her she can go and she can keep right on going, but don't loan her your helmet.
 
Yakoo752 said:
I've never really cared and still don't. It's not some dude's problem if your significant other isn't faithful.
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"You say you got a man? I'll be your handyman. Keep me on the side. I'll come in handy, man."

- Flynt Flossy
 
motomania2007 said:
Flip it around:
Ask her if it is OK for you to go on a date another woman.

If she balks, then tell her, that is how you feel.

If she thinks it is OK, then she is not YOUR GF! You are in a one way relationship.

Tell her she can go and she can keep right on going, but don't loan her your helmet.
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That’s just more gamesmanship. Stand up and tell her to get off. She’ll appreciate you more for it even if she doesn’t stick around.
 
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Its a kick in the guts but if that's not the sort of girl you want the sooner she's gone the sooner you get over it.
Sure the right advice is always easier to give than to act on. Good luck dude.
 
Let her borrow your new helmet

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OP, you thought you were going to get a different perspective from guys who like to show off their new bikes?

responses are reflecting common sense. overwhelmingly.

you were hoping someone would say, just give them the benefit of doubt. instead, the majority is saying, this relationship is no good for you ... neither is showing you the respect that you deserve
 
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MysterYvil said:
Good to know that you consider women to be chattel.

Keep 'em in the kitchen, barefoot and pregnant, won't have these problems, amirite?
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No, I think it is more about respecting someone else's relationship. I wouldn't invite another person's significant other to sit directly behind me on a motorcycle without at least making sure it was fine with all involved. It's a fairly intimate thing in my opinion.

I personally would think it disrespectful if someone asked a person I was in a relationship with to engage in some sort of intimate activity without determining whether or not I was comfortable with it. If you can't understand that, then I'm even more glad we don't actually know each other.
 
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