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girlfriends riding with another guy?

personally speaking, just to be clear on my previous post - and because a couple of the dudes i meet up with regularly are barfers - my husband is well aware how hot i think they are. that in no way figures into his trust in me. or them.

It's not that they think the other is hot/attractive. It is that they have the hots for each other which as you know is a colloquialism for wanting to have sex with each other.

It mostly sounds like OP does not have the same relationship as you and your SO.
 
This totally sucks, man. Sorry. Cut her loose and move on.
 
Shrimp in the curtain rods, unless it's your house

Ooooooooo. That’s diabolical.

Anyways. OP cut bait and move on. It’d have been one thing if she just wanted a ride on a Harley (I mean c’mon who can blame her for that). But if she’s still carrying a torch for the dude, then that’s a case of a girl who’s as not into you as much as you’d hoped and you should back off until she figures out who she wants and what she wants out of that person.
 
the thing is, each of us are the only one’s who know what sort of relationship we want, or we have. he knows. regardless of what any of us say, he will do what his heart compels him to do. and that is exactly how it should be.

OP - the best advice i can give is be true to yourself, and follow your heart. if she breaks it, she wasn’t worthy of you to begin with.

Right on! :thumbup
 
What model of HD did he buy? If he bought a Sportster, assuming they still make them, he wants to do her. If it is a Road King or a FLXKSTVRZ, he may just wants her to see he's getting paid now. :x
 
All I can say is never let yourself be a doormat in a relationship.
 
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