Cycle61
What the shit is this...
Important rules:
1. Be attractive
2. Don't be unattractive.
Proposed revision:
1. Be confident.
2. Don't be so sure you know what you want in a partner. You may find somebody amazing who you would have never imagined.
I'm not gorgeous or anything, just another kinda overweight late 30's nice guy. My wife is amazing, hawt, and 12 years older than me. We make an odd couple but hell if we aren't both happier than we ever could have imagined.
Also, there are more than likely a fair number of guys in their mid 30's coming off of a rough first marriage. Some of these guys will have kids, and toxic exes. Don't write them off just based on that.
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