Doctors and recovery are a tricky mix. IME, they don’t volunteer the best recovery - they give you the safest one. If your goal is to be back to some activity as fast as possible and/or to come out stronger than before, you may have to go against medical advice. Not moving or loading some injury will cause atrophy, scar tissue, and maybe bone loss. But knowing how hard to push something without causing setbacks is difficult. Sometimes a frank conversation with the doctor about the “best” vs “safest” recovery can work. I’ve literally asked surgeons “ok but seriously, how hard can I actually push this because I’m not screwing around?”

. Because I’m male, look like an athlete, and said “pro athlete” many times, they told me what I wanted. But others may have to advocate for themselves even harder to not get the geriatric recovery plan.