Do you wonder why people think you're an asshole, or have you figured it out?
I was going to make an additional joke regarding the ten foot pole, but nope. Not going there. Not in this climate.
America's problem: Focusing on appearance instead of substance
*I care* and I am in my early 40s....that last bit of fat around the gut is hard to get rid of I will admit. And trust me, women DO care as well!!![]()
You're kidding yourself if you think abs aren't a big effort over 40. It was incredibly easy for me to have them in my 20's. Now? I work out more than I ever did back then, eat better too.....but I don't have a 6-pack anymore. .
You're kidding yourself if you think abs aren't a big effort over 40. It was incredibly easy for me to have them in my 20's. Now? I work out more than I ever did back then, eat better too.....but I don't have a 6-pack anymore. Are the abs visible, of course....but they aren't a 6-pack anymore. Same with pecs and delts....No matter how much you lift, they aren't gonna have the same definition and "pop" that they did in your 20's. Look at pro bodybuilder photos.....there's a big difference across the age groups. The ones in their 40s won't be as V-shaped as the 20-somethings, their pecs will be flatter, etc etc. Oh sure, they're way better than their peers, but the results-to-effort ratio has changed.
Pelon and Ferdie (I don’t know his BARF name) would disagree
I have 12 pack abs. And it takes minimal effort!
Pelon and Ferdie (I don’t know his BARF name) would disagree
Here's a plus size pic!
A little extra weight is no longer about the traditional "winters coming". What if you get sick? You'll need something to live on vs relying on intravenous feeding in the hospital.
Actually, I would argue that perception plays the biggest role in the modeling business, the money follows the perception.
You seem to be implying that Oprah gains weight on purpose to profit from the weight loss, I personally don't think that is the case, I think that she is a naturally heavy woman and when she's not losing weight she's putting it on. It's pretty common for most Billionaires to be too busy making money to put in the time working out.
Also, a portion of the men do care about a woman being heavier, it's a fallacy to say that men don't care, sorry but it's a fact of life just as some women like taller guys, some like darker complexions, some like straight hair on men. It's a way nature works, everybody has their own pattern that attracts them.
A little extra weight is no longer about the traditional "winters coming".
And do they look like they would have in their 20's if they had put in the same amount of effort? No, which was my point. Look, dedication is to be admired at any age, but it takes more work to "get compliments" when you're older, and therefore fitness & health becomes more important than trying to achieve a certain look.