sfdj_tim:
He came in and gave a half-assed "apology." He didn't take responsibility, or present any kind of alternative. His first reaction was to say that he would continue to drive as he pleased, so don't be on the road at night. He lied about the incident, hoping no one would notice - that's not accountability, it's trying to weasel out of responsibility.
He had his chance to make amends in here, and he only managed to dig himself in deeper. That is no one's fault but his and now he has to try to deal with those consequences as well.
I have never bashed his ability to drive, I have always focused on his choices and judgment, which is why I would very much like to see people stop calling this act a mistake. It wasn't a mistake, it was a
choice and I have said as much from the beginning. DivineZ tried to minimize his own accountability by coloring his
choice a
mistake, and I am disinclined to go along with that.
EDIT:
InsaneStang:
Yes, we take risks by riding. We also do everything we can to minimize risks: we wear full gear, high-visibility clothing and paint, we ride defensively, and we try to anticipate problems. What we
don't do is intentionally ride into oncoming traffic. I didn't start riding to do that, and I don't think anyone else did either. By that logic I could drive a bulldozer down the wrong side of the road until someone comes around a corner and slams into it, killing themselves. "Oh, well, they bought a car and were on the road, it's a risk you take." No, it's sodding not! I'm tired of this kind of "logic," it's blaming the victim, nothing more.
In most motorcycle vs. car accidents (3/4) it's the car driver who is at fault. Yes, we assume some risk, but this is unacceptable. Only 25% of the time we are to blame in a car v. bike collision, and in every one of those collisions we are the ones on the loosing end. So 75% of the time our bodies are getting hit by a ton of hardened steel through no fault of our own - and motorcycle riders are still branded as being the reckless ones on the road. It's bullshit.