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Online Dating, whats your experience?

Its not the fact that he does not get too deep. its that he gives up before it even gets going.
 
Or hes making up problems and excuses. He dont even ride no mo.

See I married an Axe Murderer.
 
Dubbington said:
Huh? :confused

I live in Danville, girl lives off Lakeshore Oakland. I bought nearly 3 years ago. Her place is in the hood, with no off street parking at all close by. She wont be staying at my place much at all since she doesnt have a car to get out here. I'm just being realistic in the beginning and trying not to let her tasty lady bits cloud my judgment :teeth
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LaKESHORE IS NOT THE HOOD
 
Dubbington said:
Huh? :confused

I live in Danville, girl lives off Lakeshore Oakland. I bought nearly 3 years ago. Her place is in the hood, with no off street parking at all close by. She wont be staying at my place much at all since she doesnt have a car to get out here. I'm just being realistic in the beginning and trying not to let her tasty lady bits cloud my judgment :teeth
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Protip: That's not really that bad of an area, and the key to not getting jumped is situational awareness. If you're alert, walking briskly, and keeping your eyes moving, even the hoods won't touch you. They're looking for an easy mark, if you look like you're paying attention at all, they take a pass. This is true all over the world.

Morphine said:
It's good that you don't get in too deep if it doesn't work out man. I get that's you are trying to be realistic and logical about this.

I can't say I can do the same. There's a big irrational part in me that always try justify, deny, and try to make things work until it hurts when there are OTHER options out there. My dumb-ass reptile brain says things like "yeah but the one within the zipcode is boring, go for the one from half-way around the world"

FML
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We're not talking halfway around the world here, we're not even talking about halfway across the East Bay... we're talking about halfway across Contra Costa County, into Alameda, and ERMAGERD OAKLAMD!!!!!
 
Next observation:

If Oakland is "too far" with $5 gas, why attempt to hook up online?
 
This thread is getting funnier and funnier as it progresses.

Dub, why not just get a sexy time friend?
 
What's that supposed to mean? Us wimmenz like sex0rs, too, we're just less likely to bang everything on legs. :x
 
Dubbington said:
Huh? :confused

I live in Danville, girl lives off Lakeshore Oakland. I bought nearly 3 years ago. Her place is in the hood, with no off street parking at all close by. She wont be staying at my place much at all since she doesnt have a car to get out here. I'm just being realistic in the beginning and trying not to let her tasty lady bits cloud my judgment :teeth
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Dubs, I don't know you at all, but it sure seems to me that you are making up excuses here. Do you like her? Does she like you? Well fuck, if so, there you go. What else is there? I'd walk through Hunters Point at 2 in the morning, with a bag of money around my neck, to go on a date with Cootz or Connie (or even better, both). Her living situation is temporary anyway, especially if you guys really get along.
 
corndog67 said:
Dubs, I don't know you at all, but it sure seems to me that you are making up excuses here. Do you like her? Does she like you? Well fuck, if so, there you go. What else is there? I'd walk through Hunters Point at 2 in the morning, with a bag of money around my neck, to go on a date with Cootz or Connie (or even better, both). Her living situation is temporary anyway, especially if you guys really get along.
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Or at least post pics of her.
 
sfcootz said:
This thread is getting funnier and funnier as it progresses.

Dub, why not just get a sexy time friend?
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Have a friend for that already. She lives close by, she was going to come over last night but I was on a date.

corndog67 said:
Dubs, I don't know you at all, but it sure seems to me that you are making up excuses here. Do you like her? Does she like you? Well fuck, if so, there you go. What else is there? I'd walk through Hunters Point at 2 in the morning, with a bag of money around my neck, to go on a date with Cootz or Connie (or even better, both). Her living situation is temporary anyway, especially if you guys really get along.
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No excuses really. I do have some Seinfeld issues maybe...MAYBE :teeth Really though I'm just being realistic I think. Not looking to settle or make anything more difficult than it should early on.

Honestly though, if a person you met didnt have a car and you didn't live walking distance do Bart, dont you think that would be somewhat a hassle?

In related news....

After nearly 4 years I re-connected with my first and very awkward online date, miss "3 Dates No Kiss" :love Wow! If ever a girl just sends me its this one. She just has it all it seams. Well spoken, smart, a little cynical/witty/sarcastic. Her behavior, smile, dimple and confidence.... :drool Not a blonde hair blue eyed model knockout....better than that, reserved, olive colored skin, short hair just above the chin, great eyebrows.....damn! One drink and 3 hours of conversation last night, it was amazing! Great part is we are 30 and 29 and have 4 years of dating under our belt, lots of stories we shared, ex's we laughed about, horror story dates we rehashed too. Funny thing was in an email she mentioned having a friend she wanted to set me up with, I asked her about it towards the end of our night and she didn't really want to go into detail :thumbup We're are both actively online dating, her going on 3rd date with another dude and me a 2nd date with a girl, however, she wasn't too enthusiastic about the 3rd date. Never know right? We laughed A LOT about how awkward we were 4 years ago and now 1st dates are nothing.
 
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